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Dear Thelma,
My husband and I have never had good sex all throughout the years of our marriage.
From the time when he snapped at me one day and said that all I ever think about was sex, I didn’t have the nerve to ask him for sex again whenever I needed it, and I always had to grit my teeth and hope that he would make a move. I even had to resort to getting it from other sources, without his knowledge of course.
We have in fact stopped having sex for the past 10 years or so. We still sleep in the same room but on separate beds. I look upon him now as more of a live-in companion rather than a husband. But during these 10 years, my body suddenly stopped having urges and I got along fine even without any close proximity.
But recently, I started having urges again and I dread to say it’s been nagging at me for the past few days. I used to be able to do it on my own but found that I could not anymore. I badly need my husband to help me but dread that he might scorn me again. But the urges are getting more difficult to handle. I do not want to get it from others anymore.
Please tell me what should I do, Thelma? Should I ask him to help? How will I handle it if he rejects me again? I am not asking him to make love to me, just help me (relieve my urges), that’s all.
Wife-in-need
SourceMy husband and I have never had good sex all throughout the years of our marriage.
From the time when he snapped at me one day and said that all I ever think about was sex, I didn’t have the nerve to ask him for sex again whenever I needed it, and I always had to grit my teeth and hope that he would make a move. I even had to resort to getting it from other sources, without his knowledge of course.
We have in fact stopped having sex for the past 10 years or so. We still sleep in the same room but on separate beds. I look upon him now as more of a live-in companion rather than a husband. But during these 10 years, my body suddenly stopped having urges and I got along fine even without any close proximity.
But recently, I started having urges again and I dread to say it’s been nagging at me for the past few days. I used to be able to do it on my own but found that I could not anymore. I badly need my husband to help me but dread that he might scorn me again. But the urges are getting more difficult to handle. I do not want to get it from others anymore.
Please tell me what should I do, Thelma? Should I ask him to help? How will I handle it if he rejects me again? I am not asking him to make love to me, just help me (relieve my urges), that’s all.
Wife-in-need
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