Do you accept the well documented theory of natural selection? Then could you tell me whether evolution of human genes is accelerating? Without genetic evolution What explain the exponential increase of innovation in art and science, average height, more outgoing children etc etc? If not driven by natural selection, what’s the mechanism driving it? If you do accept the natural selection theory, then it’s a zero sum game, who’s the loser in this game? Nobody?

Yes, autistic people can be trained in social skills. Social skills training (SST) is a common intervention designed to help individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) improve their social interactions and communication. This training can include a variety of methods and techniques, such as:

    Role-Playing: Practicing different social scenarios to help understand and respond appropriately in real-life situations.

    Modeling: Observing and imitating the social behaviors of others.

    Social Stories: Using short stories to describe social situations and appropriate responses.

    Video Modeling: Watching videos of social interactions and discussing the behaviors observed.

    Group Therapy: Participating in group settings to practice social interactions with peers.

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Addressing the thoughts and feelings that can impact social interactions.

    Peer-Mediated Interventions: Involving peers in the training process to provide natural social interaction opportunities.

    Parent and Family Training: Educating family members on how to support the development of social skills at home.

The effectiveness of social skills training can vary based on the individual's unique needs, strengths, and the specific methods used. Consistent practice and reinforcement are crucial for the success of these interventions.

Because natural selection is an important concept to explain  what I’ve been trying to make sense of and now presenting to you guys

Learning stuff change your brain structure not your genetic code. If dating success relies on learnable skills, there will be no natural selection, because everyone with any gene can just learn whatever to find a mate and reproduce. I think is too good to be true

It is possible for social and charisma to be an outward phenotype from gene. You can have illness that suppress this phenotype, eg social anxiety. How to know whether it is genetic or illness? Through differentiating your responses to trwatment like ssri or cbt which are both very effective of social anxiety. Personally I did not respond to these treatment, dr did administer a questionnaire to measure autistic spectrum, don’t how accurate is this method but result shows I’m borderline autistic, 1 or 2 points below the threshold I think

FYI many kids today have better social skills than some adults, averaged enhancement in virtually all capabilities is observable in younger generation

Focus on the bigger picture, It’s not about me, I want to create a change for the forgotten incels

Many incels are not actual incels, just like you said they claim to be incels to dodge the responsibilities of improving themselves, I already thought this thru, that’s why there is a two step evaluation stage. ELO score is like blood test, consultant evaluation is the physical examination

You are right, self proclaim incels could result from situational depressive self pitying, meaning that they encountered setbacks then make that conclusion. which is why i propose a two step evaluation mechanism to assess this problem. low elo score and permanent singleness are good symptoms that justify further evaluation from professionals, professionals will then decide whether it is a scenario related to unfitted gene (not fixable and require palliative care) or mental illness (fixable)

I believe i work harder than most people, I attended grad school while working abroad, in stem field, my income is t20, 16 hours of my weekday is spent on work and commute, 8 hours on sleep, half of my weekends on studies

Read my chapter 3, I did propose treatment for stage 1-3 incel, treatment details could be anything, I leave it to professionals. What people dispute is the existence of stage 4 incel which is terminal loss of reproductive right, from what I consolidated, they exist because with evolution there is natural selection, thus zero sum game, thus losers of the game

In what way we are blaming others, blaming OUR OWN genes is considered blaming others?