it's lopsided with a capital L
not for me to say but will do my part cos others simply won't
cmon la who we tryin to kid here - kelakar to the max
all adults all stay here long and all know to jaga around your own kain only and that's the very reason why certain topics don't get much "airtime" cos the ppl involved won't blabber bout it, even if they do, hush2 among close quarters

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