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lemonkaki
post Jun 26 2024, 11:33 AM

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QUOTE(RocketPiki @ Jun 22 2024, 02:56 PM)
After my friend broke up with her boyfriend, I start to fall in love with her. Occasionally she would give me mixed signals, so I decided to confess to know where I stand. She rejected me politely and clearly, saying we could still be friends but I should never fall for her as she only sees me as a friend.

I tried, hoping I can suppress my feelings back to how when she had a boyfriend. But every time we see each other, I fall for her again. I don't think I'm ready for platonic relationship with her just yet.

Should I cut all contact with her, until I'm 100% ready for a purely platonic relationship? And how to tell that I'm 100% ready?
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I don't know if this is good for you OP but I had a similar experience where she reject me and stay as friends/ bro.
but after some time again, I succeed and we are getting married soon
lemonkaki
post Jun 26 2024, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(RocketPiki @ Jun 26 2024, 03:47 PM)
Congratz man. Was it hard back then when you have to settle as friends?

As for me, I've decided not to chase her anymore. Recently she did something that really turn me off. She is not as nice as I thought.
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I find it easier to deal with as a friend as no more barrier and just talk what you want without fearing she don't like it and this end up helping more in the end.

This post has been edited by lemonkaki: Jun 26 2024, 03:59 PM

 

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