you need a good pickup line and definitely try not to look creepy...

hello adik cantik comel, nak comolot boleh tak?

if you want the real answer, hit the gym. learn how to look good. improve yourself financially. learn how to dress.

do NOT approach women. women will approach you.

sekian

if you know you lack confidence, work on it.

one thing i learned that if a girl likes you, you could be the laziest bum on the planet or the hugest asshole. she will still want to be with you.

on the opposite end if you're seeking women who are not interested in you, even talking to them makes them give you the stink eye.

the dating scene is really bad nowadays where women can be spoilt for choices with the ease of apps. you are at disadvantage before you start.

but this disadvantage can be your strength.

you already "lost"

so you have nothing to lose.

if you insist on talking women up, build your confidence first. you can do this by randomly talking to men first. see that random dude? go ask him something or compliment him. if you cant even do that with the same sex, how do you expect to do so with the opposite gender?

after building up your confidence and having a nothing to lose mentality, you can start casually just talking to people.

always go in there with the mindset "i m just here to talk/ask something" NOT "i want her number". of course some women prefer the direct can i have your number approach. but if you want to go that route than go that route. its all or nothing.

theres no real right answer. it all depends on what you're willing to try.

some dudes on dating apps start off with "can i fuck you". its super crude but out of many, sometimes, sometimes a girl will ask when and where. different people prefer different approach. thats up to you to figure out but at the very least get your bases sorted out.

get the proper mentality, get the confidence.

wtf bro
Singaporean chicks can be more attracted to farkboy
i like filipina too cause they're quite open

If you're in your early 20s, you've plenty of time to waste on. I was in your shoes being clueless last time. Now I've gone out over hundreds of females, it became like an easier game as you gained experience

I guess it just happen naturally.

Unker got only a handful of experience amoi stranger approach me in public and its all happen during ma shopping for grocery.

1) I was holding a can of jam reading the ingredient. Out of nowhere amoi poup and show me another can, telling me thats better, suggesting me to try.

2) I was pushing ma trolley around, passing by one amoi few time, each time got make eye contact (obviously because she quite cute). Then when I was at one lane looking for staff she came approach me asking me where I get one of the item in my trolley.

I guess you can try the menthods above to approach amoi you fancy in public place. Then you can establish common topic to talk.

Good luck

Can't say much about techniques but I can give insight on what ladies might feel towards cold approaches:
- comments about physical appearance from a stranger might be risky... at worst, you're scary/creepy.
- avoid approaching someone who may not feel safe at the time, e.g. someone walking alone + quiet place... Don't give them a reason to run away from you

Honestly for you as a student, I think it's better to try your luck in university. Join events and clubs, work in committees, you'll learn something plus opportunity to hang out with girls and catch a glimpse of their personalities too. Unless you're that eager to fuck around, then I guess it's just a numbers game -- get rejected enough and you'll grow immune and be able to approach anyone.

What course will you be starting at NTU? For some courses like Engineering, the vast majority of students are male… you’ll have slim pickings and massive competition… good luck in advance!

And I suppose you’ll be staying on campus? Campus life is great and gives you an opportunity to mix around with different genders, esp thru hostel sports etc.

dont spend on stupid trends like latest iphone or concert
focus on what you want to achieve in future months or a year
If youre in school you can easily become more popular cause most uni students are nerds and socially retarded

make friends with people who focus on "how" instead of "why" or negative friends. As your social awareness improves, you can filter which kind of people is good to hang around

The girls here are more open and a little more sexy compared to the one in Malaysia... Just so you know... Need to be mentally prepared...

That said, I am looking for more than sex in a woman. Recently one girl I met on XHS told me she likes me because she is sapiosexual... But whenever I discuss sex and post-marriage life plans with her she will just keep quiet... INFJ girl...

Let's see...

Very nice, I am in SPMS as well. Division of Physics and Applied Physics (PAP).

The gender ratio is very bad, the girls here are taken very fast... Business school will have a more balanced gender ratio, followed by engineering.

Arts, design and media (ADM) (far from SPMS) and Social science/humanities school (at SHHK building, just next to SPMS building) has a skewed gender ratio but towards the lady's side, so you might want to drop by those 2 places more often to look for your treasures...

You are exchange student? 2 months might be ultra-short term relationship

If you are active in sports yea that's a good idea. There are girls who like badminton, swimming, gym, cycling etc. You can play some games with them and have a short conversation, then exchange numbers. Don't be shy. If they voluntarily give you their number, that means you can text her and ask her out 2-3 days later for a meal and "discuss" further...

The girls here can excite your male hormone... for the unprepared ones...  I am not joking...  This is not conservative Malaysia... many girls here just wear bralets to the uni... 

Wah not bad. Your academic background must be good. We can yamcha together when you are here. You plan to do research in the future? Sporeans generally go for engineering and not many wanna do Physics haha

As with all girls, unless you meet them through explicit dating-related venues like apps or events or social media (小红书, Instagram etc.), in normal day to day living, they may not be comfortable with your approaches as they don't know you.

Best way to start is still through classmates, work in group assignments, or sit next to your favourite girl etc. (I made this mistake back in high school and uni, mom says don't give girl commitment until you start working... )

Next thing to do thereafter is go for social events like sports and other clubs. There are lots of undergraduate student clubs here: https://www.ntu.edu.sg/life-at-ntu/student-...roups-societies

If you stay in hall there will be Residential Education programmes with a variety of interest, I joined ballroom dance at Saraca Hall last semester (learnt Waltz and Tango, managed to ask a girl out also after I got her number ). North Hill halls like Tanjong focuses on culinary, so if you are foodie can go over there. Other halls focus on art and gardening (like Hall 12), IT/programming, financial planning etc. 

There will always be something for you, and in all events there will be girls coming. Don't be shy to talk to them and introduce yourself, your major, "country of origin", interests, accommodation. Lastly, grab the number.

Also, don't be afraid of rejections... some girls got boyfriend since high school already. Learn to respect them.

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Err in case you don't know or misunderstand. I don't mean bra... I mean bralet 

These ones...

https://imgur.com/a/egJipMY

Some tips for you to survive in NTU.

Important Telegram groups include:

NTU Free Food Telegram group: https://t.me/freefoodntu

NTU Marketplace: https://t.me/ntumarketplace

NTU Student Hub: https://t.me/NTUstudenthub

NTU Gobek car-pool platform (you still need to pay... more like an unofficial Grab service, usually guys will pick girls up if they have a car... and it all starts from there...): https://t.me/ntugo

1. If you stay in hall, NTU halls use the stupid ancient "$1" coin system. NTU Office of Campus Housing (OCH) is kiasu kiasi, they never bother to upgrade the system to smarter ones like using student card (which doubles as Ezlink card/NETS card) or Visa/Mastercard as they are afraid of the vendor (Maytag) will raise the price.

To get $1 coins for your laundry, you may WhatsApp this number  (+65 9633 1827) and exchange for $1 coins free of charge. Each packet comes with 50 $1 coins, which you exchange for exactly 50 SGD. You can exchange in multiples of $50 SGD as well, like 100, 150 SGD etc. The person will come to the front lobby of your hall to you deliver your 50 SGD notes in exchange for packets of 50 $1 coins.

2. It's wise to invest in a refrigerator during your stay at NTU. Food is free in NTU. This is a top secret... No one tell me until I join that Telegram group... During semester breaks like right now, there will be lots of events happening and you will have lots of free food to grab. The food can either come in the form of bentos or buffet leftover. Always bring with you food containers stand by to collect the leftover food. Keep a sharp eye on where and when events might happen in campus before the food details are posted on Telegram.

When semester begins, the free food will usually be taken and cleared in 5 minutes... 

We can chat more if you are interested, I got a lot more secrets to share with you haha

TS is lucky. In life, there are certain universal truths that are fundamental facts. In the faculty of medicine, it is well accepted that <beauty> x <brains> = k, where k is a fixed constant.

So, yeah…. Slim pickings for med students.