Sounds like a scam. I am currently talking to a scammer to pass time too, he/she been trying to ask me to invest in stocks with him/her which I have been coming out with excuses to reject so I can continue to see what tactics they can use.

Hahaha. already obvious scammer, I just chat to pass time. Ask to meet this Sunday to see what kind of excuse he/she will use to bail out.

usually they will ask you to meet in a group
then flash you with scarcity scenario
even induce fear

I think you already know the answer to your questions.

The only question worth asking is, why are you still holding out for her?

Never ever entertain women's mind games. If she says no, take it as a no. Man up and move on.

0! Hence this post.

he hasnt gone out on a single date with this girl, and then tried to act alpha by telling her he's not happy with her excuses. Just shown he's clueless about women. If a woman is not hooked on you emotionally or sexually, any action is just deemed as low value

Giving ultimatums to a girl who hasnt invested in you (havent even met in this case), is a desperate unattractive behavior.

Its the same with "confessions of love".

TS can move on anytime, no need drama. But maybe he need to relook at his approach if he is not getting much success in attracting the opposite sex.

Whenever a guy is hitting on a girl,  the default starting position is He will be more attracted to her than she is of him. Natural. The more attractive or marketable she is relative to him, the bigger the gap.

The art or game is to change that default starting position and make the girl similarly attracted to the guy.

Attraction is build on demonstrating high value. Some men make the mistake (commonly see in this forum) that when a girl responds positively, the guy becomes needy, pushy, desperate. Low value actions that kill any attraction.

Yea its balancing.

Also doing more the right things and less the wrong things.

But there is also a thrill that maybe u would hv forgotten.

The thrill of the hunt.

Hi yes it's not meant to be, I don't have much experience growing up due to personal reasons, so this is actually a good lesson for me.

Hopefully the lesson is not to be forever alone.