the trigger point here was the "bulan Ramadhan" comment
that statement blew a fuse in the Pakcik and notably so until he brought up the kepala bapak ko bla bla bla......adoi.......everthing went south after that with all the what religion are you all
i totally get it that he's beyond infuriated from the previous incident which we are not aware of,
sometimes i think old people are patient but when put through the test, they are humans too, age does not always guarantee wisdom

not easy at times living in a multicultural nation like us
we try our best

precisely so

something in the way he said Ramadhan made it sound like.....
how shall i put it....condescending idk?
macam perli la

from the Pakcik's point of view it'd be like
Who are you to come tell me it's the month where i've got to behave and all........i don't speak for all (or the Pakcik) but i also will feel pissed if i were to visualise myself in the same situation as the Pakcik

which then prompted for him to ask for his religion



there's actually another thing quite alarming here which i didn't know where to post but

on a sidenote
playing on phone, be it....
- keying in the address on a navigation app
- scrolling to choose a certain song from a playlist
- or whatever la that requires your visual interaction with the device, making you lose focus (and sight of the road)

IS ABSOLUTELY DANGEROUS - we know this



Pakcik was angry for a valid reason
I'd be to

it's how we manage our anger that's key in making sure we all live harmoniously despite troubled times

ok laaa

let this go

pakcik and non already gone on their separate ways........doing normal daily things but here we are still blabbing bout it

thread can go on n on cos there's really no proper outcome

This post has been edited by machomama: Apr 3 2024, 06:01 PM