TS, this will be my opinion. The girl is not married yet, hence she is still available.

The girl yet to break away from her current boyfriend probably because she may be looking for certainty before she does it. To certain ppl, that way of doing thing is not acceptable. But what if you look at it in such way, the girl = current employee looking for another job because she find no prospect with her current employer, before the current employee tender her resignation, she want to secure the letter of offer from the firm she is interviewing now. How will you view this? Is this action despicable also or wise ? Coz a lot of people are doing such regardless the male or female employee before they tender their resignation? If you ask me, there is no right or wrong. See how you view it personally.

If you think & feel that you like the girl, you will be a better partner for the girl, both of you will have better future together. By all means, attempt to challenge the current relationship. The girl is waiting for certainty before she make her decision. If you are taking advantage out of her misery, then don't proceed further.

In life, if you can be a better option, become one. If you cannot become a better option, stay put by being neutral and don't become a worse option.

This post has been edited by nihility: Apr 5 2024, 06:28 PM