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Advice Wanted should i go for a girl with bf, what should i do

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SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(luckyMan99 @ Mar 26 2024, 03:49 PM)
Recently, I've grown quite close to a girl I know through a friend. Unfortunately, I discovered that she has a boyfriend. She mentioned that their relationship is unstable, and she doesn't see him as marriage material. Upon learning about her relationship status, I initially attempted to distance myself. However, she unexpectedly came closer, and make it quite clear that she's interested in me but hesitant because she feels she doesn't know me well enough yet.

should I go for it or give up?
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Girls like this are opportunistic. Always looking out for better opportunities while stringing along their current bfs.

If you be with her, she will appear to be happy with you while finding your replacement.

I despise people who don't end relationships until they find a replacement.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 04:01 PM

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TS I know this is not /k, but one other suggestion is to piap, and then run.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 26 2024, 04:09 PM)
Apa sarahan? Used and be used that is common.

If u have something to hook her forever then its ur strength.
Even merried still can divorce. Nothing is impossible.

Be positive.
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 04:11 PM)
that guy is not fully red pill yet, its fine
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Not everyone believes in your worldview of use and be used. It is a sad worldview.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 04:24 PM)
If you think its sad, its sad
If you think rich people money is dirty money, its dirty

you can choose to live in your small cave
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And you continue to move from one bitch to another. dry.gif
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 26 2024, 04:43 PM)
Poor ppl say money is not everything, but rich ppl say money can buy anything.

Its nicer to cry in lamboghini than crying in kancil
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The issue is not about money now. Let's not delve into the topic of money shall we? I rather not compare networth and then hksgmy comes in and trash us both.

The issue of concern is about moving from one girl to another which you seem to be very much aligned with our resident red piller. I used to think like you, bla bla hypergamy, PUA.

After doing all those shit for a while, it feels sad. Everything is a competition. Everything is transactional.

But it's your life, so you live your life mang.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 04:52 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 04:51 PM)
Then you did it the wrong way
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Maybe, but no regrets leaving that life. Meaningless.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Mar 26 2024, 04:59 PM)
I’m a poorfag bro… I just bought 256Gb of iPhone 15 Pro and 15 Pro Max (for inflight delivery) which officially categorises me as poorfag.
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No la brader. Pakai iPhone means rich. I use cinaphone only.
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 05:29 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 05:09 PM)
what meaningless?
sex is the only element that satisfies human five senses
eye (beauty)
ear (girl moan)
nose (body smell)
tongue (cunnilingus)
body (exchange of body fluid, touches)
will (intention of so call romantic 'connection)

Its the best thing a human being can possibly experience.
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Not denying and totally agree. But like food, water, security, sex is a primal and biological need. Some would even say, animalistic. As modern humang beings. surely there are things beyond sex to give meaning in life no?

Not saying I don't enjoy sex. Different people find meaning in different ways.

Let's not derail the topic to a philosophical discourse. TS needs help smile.gif
SUSSihambodoh
post Mar 26 2024, 05:48 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 05:36 PM)
the things that give meaning to beyond basic needs are transactional
I thought you mentioned dont want transactions?
animals, plants or even the sun gives you sunlight with unconditional love, but human beings like to separate between a good girl and a slut.

Irony being a human
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 26 2024, 05:39 PM)
Love has been and always was based on transactional.

Jew give attention to wimmen and they return with affection.
Or some is more material-wise.

Dare dare tell me that is not true?
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There are things beyond basic needs that give meaning without being transactional.

But let's address Wacky's question. If it is transactional, it is not love. I am not denying most relationships are transactional. That is all too common.

But not all. The thing is, some would want to find that love, however hard it may be. Also, some other guy mentioned the other day, your partner may be transactional, but you don't have to play the game. For me, if I know the women is transactional, then off she goes. I will not show off my wealth to attract women. I drove my pleve to go after my wife. She was there when I was poor. After so many years of hard work and trying so many businesses, she is still here with me even though I am still poor.

So they are rare, but they are there. Just have to look harder.

For those who are transactional to you, you can be transactional to them. I have no issues with that, the question to TS is what is he looking for.

 

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