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Advice Wanted should i go for a girl with bf, what should i do

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post Mar 26 2024, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(luckyMan99 @ Mar 26 2024, 04:34 PM)
She told me her boyfriend does not treat her well. But I can't figure out why she hasn't broken up with him if that's the case.
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Regardless why, if u can be the reason then u are da man
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:48 PM

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Let her break up first then go for it
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 26 2024, 04:43 PM)
Poor ppl say money is not everything, but rich ppl say money can buy anything.

Its nicer to cry in lamboghini than crying in kancil
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The issue is not about money now. Let's not delve into the topic of money shall we? I rather not compare networth and then hksgmy comes in and trash us both.

The issue of concern is about moving from one girl to another which you seem to be very much aligned with our resident red piller. I used to think like you, bla bla hypergamy, PUA.

After doing all those shit for a while, it feels sad. Everything is a competition. Everything is transactional.

But it's your life, so you live your life mang.
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(luckyMan99 @ Mar 26 2024, 04:34 PM)
She told me her boyfriend does not treat her well. But I can't figure out why she hasn't broken up with him if that's the case.
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you don't need to figure
all you have to do is take actions when she gives signals
back off when she refuses
two steps forward, one step back
when it comes to dating and attraction
esp at the beginning of a relationship
throw your man logic our of window for awhile

hold the frame
be fun, and mysterious
show her you can be busy and able to get other girls
until she ask the golden question "what are we now?"
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:51 PM

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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM)
After doing all those shit for a while, it feels sad. Everything is a competition. Everything is transactional.

But it's your life, so you live your life mang.
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Then you did it the wrong way
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:52 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 04:51 PM)
Then you did it the wrong way
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Maybe, but no regrets leaving that life. Meaningless.
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post Mar 26 2024, 04:59 PM

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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM)
The issue is not about money now. Let's not delve into the topic of money shall we? I rather not compare networth and then hksgmy comes in and trash us both.

The issue of concern is about moving from one girl to another which you seem to be very much aligned with our resident red piller. I used to think like you, bla bla hypergamy, PUA.

After doing all those shit for a while, it feels sad. Everything is a competition. Everything is transactional.

But it's your life, so you live your life mang.
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I’m a poorfag bro… I just bought 256Gb of iPhone 15 Pro and 15 Pro Max (for inflight delivery) which officially categorises me as poorfag.
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Mar 26 2024, 04:59 PM)
I’m a poorfag bro… I just bought 256Gb of iPhone 15 Pro and 15 Pro Max (for inflight delivery) which officially categorises me as poorfag.
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No la brader. Pakai iPhone means rich. I use cinaphone only.
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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 04:52 PM)
Maybe, but no regrets leaving that life. Meaningless.
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what meaningless?
sex is the only element that satisfies human five senses
eye (beauty)
ear (girl moan)
nose (body smell)
tongue (cunnilingus)
body (exchange of body fluid, touches)
will (intention of so call romantic 'connection)

Its the best thing a human being can possibly experience.
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:22 PM

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Morally speaking no. But life is more than black or white. It all depends on how much you feel about her. If you believe she is worth it, then go for it. Life waits for no man. Relationship is about feelings. If you feels strongly for her, just go and get her. Don't care about her bf and what not. If you think you can live without her, then let her go.
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:29 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 05:09 PM)
what meaningless?
sex is the only element that satisfies human five senses
eye (beauty)
ear (girl moan)
nose (body smell)
tongue (cunnilingus)
body (exchange of body fluid, touches)
will (intention of so call romantic 'connection)

Its the best thing a human being can possibly experience.
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Not denying and totally agree. But like food, water, security, sex is a primal and biological need. Some would even say, animalistic. As modern humang beings. surely there are things beyond sex to give meaning in life no?

Not saying I don't enjoy sex. Different people find meaning in different ways.

Let's not derail the topic to a philosophical discourse. TS needs help smile.gif
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:34 PM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Mar 26 2024, 04:59 PM)
I’m a poorfag bro… I just bought 256Gb of iPhone 15 Pro and 15 Pro Max (for inflight delivery) which officially categorises me as poorfag.
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Mehhhh ayam use Note 20U only. 4 years old phone.
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 05:29 PM)
surely there are things beyond sex to give meaning in life no?
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the things that give meaning to beyond basic needs are transactional
I thought you mentioned dont want transactions?
animals, plants or even the sun gives you sunlight with unconditional love, but human beings like to separate between a good girl and a slut.

Irony being a human
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 05:29 PM)
Not denying and totally agree. But like food, water, security, sex is a primal and biological need. Some would even say, animalistic. As modern humang beings. surely there are things beyond sex to give meaning in life no?

Not saying I don't enjoy sex. Different people find meaning in different ways.

Let's not derail the topic to a philosophical discourse. TS needs help  smile.gif
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Love has been and always was based on transactional.

Jew give attention to wimmen and they return with affection.
Or some is more material-wise.

Dare dare tell me that is not true?
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:48 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 05:36 PM)
the things that give meaning to beyond basic needs are transactional
I thought you mentioned dont want transactions?
animals, plants or even the sun gives you sunlight with unconditional love, but human beings like to separate between a good girl and a slut.

Irony being a human
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 26 2024, 05:39 PM)
Love has been and always was based on transactional.

Jew give attention to wimmen and they return with affection.
Or some is more material-wise.

Dare dare tell me that is not true?
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There are things beyond basic needs that give meaning without being transactional.

But let's address Wacky's question. If it is transactional, it is not love. I am not denying most relationships are transactional. That is all too common.

But not all. The thing is, some would want to find that love, however hard it may be. Also, some other guy mentioned the other day, your partner may be transactional, but you don't have to play the game. For me, if I know the women is transactional, then off she goes. I will not show off my wealth to attract women. I drove my pleve to go after my wife. She was there when I was poor. After so many years of hard work and trying so many businesses, she is still here with me even though I am still poor.

So they are rare, but they are there. Just have to look harder.

For those who are transactional to you, you can be transactional to them. I have no issues with that, the question to TS is what is he looking for.
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post Mar 26 2024, 05:52 PM

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Go for it.
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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Mar 26 2024, 05:48 PM)
There are things beyond basic needs that give meaning without being transactional.

But let's address Wacky's question. If it is transactional, it is not love. I am not denying most relationships are transactional. That is all too common.

But not all. The thing is, some would want to find that love, however hard it may be. Also, some other guy mentioned the other day, your partner may be transactional, but you don't have to play the game. For me, if I know the women is transactional, then off she goes. I will not show off my wealth to attract women. I drove my pleve to go after my wife. She was there when I was poor. After so many years of hard work and trying so many businesses, she is still here with me even though I am still poor.

So they are rare, but they are there. Just have to look harder.

For those who are transactional to you, you can be transactional to them. I have no issues with that, the question to TS is what is he looking for.
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It is what it is.

If u need to give something to get return then is is transaction.

Else its call stalker or beggar. Heck even beggar says TQ for ur donation and jew get karma/sugar point. No?
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 26 2024, 04:49 PM)
you don't need to figure
all you have to do is take actions when she gives signals
back off when she refuses
two steps forward, one step back
when it comes to dating and attraction
esp at the beginning of a relationship
throw your man logic our of window for awhile

hold the frame
be fun, and mysterious
show her you can be busy and able to get other girls
until she ask the golden question "what are we now?"
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Any legendary answers for this question?
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post Mar 26 2024, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(howszat @ Mar 26 2024, 05:52 PM)
Go for it.
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any reason you can give me?
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