Depends on you. I only hold hands if official. If not forget it.
Even then last time the girl I was seeing told me that she appreciates that I asked her before just simply grabbing her hand.

Different people different style. Do what you think is suitable for you. No need to blindly follow others.

Do what works. If one is regularly getting rejected, dumped n friendzoned, then likely what they are doing is not working.

hold hand mean nothing to me.

i have held hands of at least 15 girls during my pak tor days

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Mar 13 2024, 06:25 PM

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This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Mar 13 2024, 06:25 PM

ya lor , me myself even hold someone girlfriend hand when outing with her

If the reaction is pull back, then cut the date short in 5 minutes and go home?

She let you hold on?

erm yes

But why would you wanna hold someone's gf's hand? You like her?

This post has been edited by Dongibab: Mar 13 2024, 09:39 PM

she's the one who started to hold my hand , so i'm fine with it , i do like her that time but at the same time remain as a good friend

Depends on the reaction, read body language/facial expression lah. If she looks disgusted then you definitely fucked up. If she looked surprised and just shocked, it could be that she was just startled and not used to it/ready for it yet.

Talk lah to understand more, see if she's open to try more or really want to call it off. Sometimes all you need is proper communication, especially if you're inexperienced/not good in reading social cues.

No..thats like childish. Just be cool and pretend it didnt happen.

But now u know she doesnt like.u that way. Maybe its not yet, so up to u whether to ask her out again.

But I prefer not to waste time if no chemistry. 1 or maybe 2 date enough already to tell.

nowadays I hold my children hands more when take them out for shopping.

Ini true. deswai I like go hiking last time single. can hold bnyk awek hand when you're experienced

same here

Info from top Klang Valley playboy.

1. Touch arm.

2. Hold hand.

3. Arms around her waist.

4. Touch Boob.

5. Congratulation, you can eat her now.

P/S: Girl 101% is dumb!

This post has been edited by w19: Mar 16 2024, 12:21 AM

i don't think so

There were once I tried to hold because school camp activity need climb here there walk through obstacle, I suppose to hold her just to cross that obstacle, then another obstacle comes after this, and we somehow holding hand the entire activity awkwardly.

Btw we did not progress further from there, either I too dumb to pick up hints or she also contempling, u know sometimes they talk around u about "some guy" duno are they testing your response or really there is such guy, I am assuming there is that guy that's not me... but they could be hinting about me too. In the end of the day only she knows the truth.

sometimes girl usually listen on what their best friend say bout the guy rather then make a own decision

Just try on any girl until reach stage 4 then you give me the answer!