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TSredracer2004
post Feb 27 2024, 09:20 AM

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QUOTE(max_cavalera @ Feb 27 2024, 09:08 AM)
Already pm you on the likely scenario how this will play out and how to handle it.

If your friend not strong emotionally and do as what I recommend, the women will sense your friend as a weak/Lower Sexual Market Value guy and proceed to dump him.

Office romance with superior is potent. Its satisfy women hypergamy/dating up nature.
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But this is the first time I see after a guy rejects, the girl didn't answer and then the girl continues as usual.
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post Jul 18 2024, 08:23 AM

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QUOTE(mfe7 @ Jul 18 2024, 04:33 AM)
From my perspective, the girl is walking a fine line. Sharing personal details and emotional struggles with someone other than her boyfriend, especially with such intensity, can be considered emotional cheating. The fact that she’s reaching out to her superior at work and discussing her relationship issues adds another layer of complexity.
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I agree - especially with the part of the unequal balance of authority in this relationship. All will be well in the honeymoon stage, but once reality sinks in and the nitty gritty of a relationship starts to float to the surface, that guy is setting himself up for a world of pain.
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post Jul 19 2024, 05:59 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Feb 27 2024, 09:20 AM)
But this is the first time I see after a guy rejects, the girl didn't answer and then the girl continues as usual.
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Last time I was a junior staff in my firm.

So we all share the same desk sitting together.

This young boy always stick to glue to this kakak. The kakak everyday complain about her boyfriend to this young boy. At first we all thought they were just pet brother and sister type rship. Mana tau the boy fell in love with her. What is worse, in the office he got one blur girlfriend also our colleague, she so blur she doesn't know her young boy bf fell in love with the kakak.

So one day, he went over to the kakak boyfriend, told him off, that the kakak is in love with him not with her bf. Her bf became so angry confronted her, she cried like hell. Even came to office also we saw drama, she crying, then call all the colleagues to comfort her and share story about young boy.

She cried because her boyfriend came to her and told, her to make a choice: HIM OR YOUNG BOY, else he walk out.

So kakak in end chose back her boyfriend.

then young boy machiem kena obstracized in office. Eventually he resigned. Then when his girlfriend found out, she left him for another guy.

then he fled to singapork to work.

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post Jul 19 2024, 07:52 PM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Jul 19 2024, 05:59 PM)
Last time I was a junior staff in my firm.

So we all share the same desk sitting together.

This young boy always stick to glue to this kakak. The kakak everyday complain about her boyfriend to this young boy. At first we all thought they were just pet brother and sister type rship. Mana tau the boy fell in love with her. What is worse, in the office he got one blur girlfriend also our colleague, she so blur she doesn't know her young boy bf fell in love with the kakak.

So one day, he went over to the kakak boyfriend, told him off, that the kakak is in love with him not with her bf. Her bf became so angry confronted her, she cried like hell. Even came to office also we saw drama, she crying, then call all the colleagues to comfort her and share story about young boy.

She cried because her boyfriend came to her and told, her to make a choice: HIM OR YOUNG BOY, else he walk out.

So kakak in end chose back her boyfriend.

then young boy machiem kena obstracized in office. Eventually he resigned. Then when his girlfriend found out, she left him for another guy.

then he fled to singapork to work.
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And now he makes more money than the kakak, kakak’s bf and his ex gf combined, so everyone got happy ending.
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post Jul 20 2024, 03:55 PM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Jul 19 2024, 05:59 PM)
Last time I was a junior staff in my firm.

So we all share the same desk sitting together.

This young boy always stick to glue to this kakak. The kakak everyday complain about her boyfriend to this young boy. At first we all thought they were just pet brother and sister type rship. Mana tau the boy fell in love with her. What is worse, in the office he got one blur girlfriend also our colleague, she so blur she doesn't know her young boy bf fell in love with the kakak.

So one day, he went over to the kakak boyfriend, told him off, that the kakak is in love with him not with her bf. Her bf became so angry confronted her, she cried like hell. Even came to office also we saw drama, she crying, then call all the colleagues to comfort her and share story about young boy.

She cried because her boyfriend came to her and told, her to make a choice: HIM OR YOUNG BOY, else he walk out.

So kakak in end chose back her boyfriend.

then young boy machiem kena obstracized in office. Eventually he resigned. Then when his girlfriend found out, she left him for another guy.

then he fled to singapork to work.
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Where's the obligatory parts of "the kakak slept with me already" or the parts of "the kakak gave me some naughty favors"? Hahaha
Anyways, this kakak also damn attention seeking la.
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post Jul 21 2024, 07:17 AM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jul 20 2024, 03:55 PM)
Where's the obligatory parts of "the kakak slept with me already" or the parts of "the kakak gave me some naughty favors"? Hahaha
Anyways, this kakak also damn attention seeking la.
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Which girl/woman/kakak doesn't like it when the spotlight is turned on them? Put them on a pedestal, have a bump of office simps salivating over her, and boom ... recipe for office disaster.
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post Jul 22 2024, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Jul 19 2024, 07:52 PM)
And now he makes more money than the kakak, kakak’s bf and his ex gf combined, so everyone got happy ending.
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not sure if he had a happy ending hmm.gif

but due to that incident he made all 100 of all colleagues enemies.


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post Jul 22 2024, 02:23 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jul 20 2024, 03:55 PM)
Where's the obligatory parts of "the kakak slept with me already" or the parts of "the kakak gave me some naughty favors"? Hahaha
Anyways, this kakak also damn attention seeking la.
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yeah she's attention seeking.

the boyboy also another oxymoron.

my colleagues claim she was using him to pressure her boyfriend to propose marriage.
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post Jul 23 2024, 01:44 AM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Feb 20 2024, 10:32 AM)
Here I have a very juicy story for you.

A girl and a guy has been in texting terms for quite some time. The guy normally starts off asking stuffs and the girl will normally reply and explain on her end of the deal on the question. Seems like a healthy relationship? Well not so apparently as the guy is the superior of the girl at work and the girl has a boyfriend.

At first the guy's constant questioning has gotten the girl somehow interested? And then slowly, the girl started initiating conversations even telling the guy about how bad the boyfriend has been to her. Not sure if this was brozone or friendzone but the girl did spill a lot of beans of her daily lives to the guy. The guy and the girl can be texting almost the whole day at times. The guy at first when he was trying did not know she has a boyfriend but half way through, he heard about the boyfriend thing from other colleagues.

So the thing came when one day, all of a sudden, the girl texted the guy asking why is the guy treating the girl so good and all and caring for her well being all like what a boyfriend would do. The guy answered that he sees her more than a friend, more than a subordinate. The girl went silent for 2 days until after that, the girl started to initiate conversation with the guy again and slowly snooping in personal lives again. She even one time asked if she looks funny with her hair chopped down to shoulder length.

Now clearly the boyfriend may not be in knowledge of this but after you see this story. do you consider the girl cheating on her boyfriend already?

Edit: My friend is the friend of the guy so yeah.
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101% YES!!!!
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post Jul 24 2024, 02:05 AM

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This girl seems to develope a close, emotionally intimate relationship with her superior, which she isn't sharing with her boyfriend. The constant texting, sharing personal details, and seeking validation from him are all red flags. It might not be physical, but it does show a lack of boundaries and respect for her current relationship.

If you're interested in more intriguing stories, you might want to check out an untold story about Teresa Fidalgo. It's fascinating how certain stories can capture so much attention and spread widely. But back to this situation, I think the girl's actions are questionable, and it’s important for her to address these feelings honestly with her boyfriend.

This post has been edited by arobd: Jul 25 2024, 08:56 PM
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post Jul 24 2024, 11:15 AM

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even telling the guy about how bad the boyfriend has been to her

Take this advise from me, if you felt in love with a person and encountered the above situation, the best you can do is listen and advice logically. I know what you're thinking, this is your chance right? That you going to be the perfect one who will never failed or disappoint them. Taking down all the notes, what to and not to do, what they like and dislike, anyway to impress that person and make you make your move. STOP, high chances this aren't going to work. No matter how much they complain about their lover, at the end they'll still be together. Sorry to say, you just a person they wanted to talk or cry to. Even if you confess to them at this kind of time, they might say they still love them, that you're the only person who listen to their cries etc. Ugh...I feel like throwing up now thinking how much of a simp and loser i am many years ago, at the end i gained nothing but depression. That's my advise, and stay away from someone else's gf/bf/wife/husband, don't you ever think about the consequences when get caught?
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post Jul 26 2024, 04:56 AM

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Asked the girl, is she willing to tell her bf what is she doing?

If she said no, then it is obviously cheating at emotional level because she knows she is cheating.

If she said ok, then for her its not and she sincerely just enjoying the attention. Probably still immature and blur girl type and just venting out her frustration to her bf.

 

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