I think all mans love if wife can give a blowjob. Always makes a joke about blowjob, but wife still ignores.
But I'm not going to pressure her and i felt a bit of selfish if thinking that way, so the only way is to masturbate.
So it become a habit, and my wife dont know about it. I think it's safer and better than seeking another girl and cheating on her.

How about married guys out there.

This post has been edited by Freakin: Feb 15 2024, 03:09 PM

Hi,

How much sexually active you and your wife now per week. or per month

before u ask for that.. are you willing to go down on her?

per week how many times you have sex with her ?

DO you go down for her? if your answer is no then thats the reason why.

Its kinda simple actually .

Have kids dy ?

if got its perfectly normal.

take a 1-4 years break.

if still doesnt work out, its ok.

It takes some times to work around the morality of eating out. Just dont get caught.

If u still no kids, count your lucky starts because you can work things out with her or end it. If sexual compatibility has become an issue, end things. It will be a cold hard road ahead if this is not settle.

BJ nice meh?

No BJ but got piap piap or not?

not more than 3 times a month

no kids yet, I love her. That why i told myself not to be selfish and just masturbate

Nice. She once bj me every time I told felt sleepy while driving too long. now no more, she slept instead and left me to drive alone.
I don't know, maybe from the woman's side they don't like it. Thats why i told myself dont be selfish.

are you kidding me?
Of course women know it and they will use sex to get you do more work to satisfy her

even if she knew, why she won't try to satisfy me. treat me like old times

Wimmens reject/dowan sex for many reasons but usually is due to the other half.
It could be as simple as u forgot to do something u promised to her.

Even if u apologised but she may not fully forgive. Small stuffs accumulates becomes big issue.

Best is u discuss with her and see how to find solution.

well said

ABC sex for married men with kids

Anniversary
Birthday
Christmas

One of the best things in life ❤️

Oh still dapat 3 times. Not too bad lah.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

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I do agree on this part.

Attraction on her POV might be different from what you thinking. Maybe help her with house chore. Give more attention to her. Might be you did had slightly change attitude without you notice that she didn't like.

Have a talk with her. Discuss.

Some women don't like to do blowjobs.

normal sex?

[quote=Cubalagi,Feb 16 2024, 08:40 AM]
One of the best things in life ❤️
Oh still dapat 3 times. Not too bad lah.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

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[quote=mastedo,Feb 16 2024, 08:49 AM]
But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

[/quote]

I do agree on this part.

Attraction on her POV might be different from what you thinking. Maybe help her with house chore. Give more attention to her. Might be you did had slightly change attitude without you notice that she didn't like.

Have a talk with her. Discuss.

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Mine is the other way round as we grew older, it’s increasing

Nice.

Whats u and partners age? How long married? N whether have kids?

I presume your wife is working
So she might be stress at work without knowing it

Bring your wife to vacation nice room
Then bang her

We are coming to mid our 50s…married in 2000, yes with kids

Wow well done there. Just keep healthy bro.

It really opens my eyes that how guys look intimate relationship is crucial in marry life.

Well maybe your wife think of blowjob is dirty like gerli punya kerja?

just like women think money is everything
same concept duhhhhh

Google dead bedrooms and you'll see how there are many in far worst situation than you. You said no kids yet, so I assume you're still young and the marriage is still relatively fresh. I hope you'll still be satisfied with doing this in the future.

Sexual compatibility is important for the long term. Otherwise, it only breeds contempt and end up ruining the relationship if it's not communicated. It's not everything but it can really mess up the relationship if the couple isn't compatible in bed.

p.s. it's not only the men that are complaining about it

Yeah same here wanna ask DO you go down for her? Bcoz these all things for me is a two-way. But communication is also important, you can try discuss with her and told her you like it and see how its work at the end. HAPPY MARRIAGE HAPPY LIFE

I feel you bro..i also buka tered few months ago about my wife not interested in sex.

I found my answer here.

Try to find a hobby, make yourself busy. Don't eat outside. stay loyal in your marriage.

You will feel proud of yourself.

This post has been edited by Lonelybird: Feb 24 2024, 10:23 PM

/r/deadbedrooms

to anyone who need some comfort or just to feel i am not alone in this cold long hard road.

to those who havent merrid or have kids, if sexual compatibility is an issue, just end things. Dont waste time it wont be fix if both person decided they have different POV and prority, and are insisting on it.

Proud of yourself due to not having your needs fulfilled?
It sounds pathetic to me. I would end things right away if things go south with no improvement after reasonable attempts to repair it.
Own desire is as important as anything else.
But to do that, you yourself needs to be somewhat high up in the market value / financial capability, in other words, you are in the position where you can technically do whatever you want if you want to, but you chose to stay loyal if the partner has no issues. This way, the partner knows she can lose you anytime if she tries to pull something bad such as not satisfying your needs, or start becoming disrespectful, etc.

If you have no bargaining chip, you will be the receiving end of bad stuffs and have no power to turn things around.
Sounds evil / manipulative or whatever negative words you can think of, but it is the hidden reality behind every relationship dynamic.

Used to married before... Ex wife never gave blowjob since day 1 ( ex wife is 1st love) but she allow to piap during GF stage until "accident" no choice then marry her. After give birth, piap session getting lesser and lesser.. ex wife work as sales mgr role.. everyday come back stress, chase numbers even at home everyevening start at xcel sales figures... everyday boss call ( her boss is lady) chase numbers.. sometimes weekend have to work in malls to get sales... exwife work in bank sales... stressful job so come back just want to shower and sleep no mood for piap session... so piap session getting lesser and lesser liao.. but uncle feel lucky at least allow piap session la.... now ex wife left uncle cause back in 2019 uncle lost job and 1 yr cannot find job.. ex wife not happy so decide to leave cause uncle "useless" cannot provide for family that time.. uncle dissapointed but already moved on since then...

well said

the issue with these trad con beta males is they differentiate between a good wife and slut. They insist to think a good wife will not cheat on him forever, so they sleep with prostitutes outside and then go back pretend as a good provider because he cant get genuine desire from his wife.