a lot of people nowadays dont understand marriage and the commitment

they understand they want to get married but marriage is not just romance, it has a lot of duty, commitment and responsibilities

it's just like a business, it needs to maintain and progress, as people aged, their mindset will change as well, so it's about growing up together

a lot of alignment of expectations to be done from time to time

Never thought abt getting married ever since I was young. The older I get, the more the idea of getting married makes me feel nauseous. I've been in rships before but I realized that I'm much happier being single. Not because I was with the wrong partner but because I'm just too damn selfish with my time now.

Life is not a bed of roses..... But this does not mean suicide is the way out

Same goes to marriage...... The partner appreciation increase over time

imagine by 70s and look back the lifetime, thankful for wife that walk over different tough period