Maybe you can elaborate more on what is your objective asking is question. So ppl here can give you the appropriate answer you looking for.

I saw you written you early 40s already
whats your relationship experiences so far?

still a virgin?
or had some sexual experiences before?
just watch out some potential female predator that goes for your resources

are you planning to have childrens?

I was married and divorced once. But I still hope to be married again as there are many beautiful and pratical things about marriage.

Even my first marriage, its sad how it ended, but there were plenty of good times. I liken it to the HBO Game of Thrones TV series, the last season sucked big time, but the earlier seasons were good. Overall, it was still an amazing tv series.

Now Im hoping for a better one.

Women sooner or later will ask for marriage. Most men are the same too. You just havent found the person.

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible - Harry met Sally (1989)

a lot of people nowadays dont understand marriage and the commitment

they understand they want to get married but marriage is not just romance, it has a lot of duty, commitment and responsibilities

it's just like a business, it needs to maintain and progress, as people aged, their mindset will change as well, so it's about growing up together

a lot of alignment of expectations to be done from time to time

Never thought abt getting married ever since I was young. The older I get, the more the idea of getting married makes me feel nauseous. I've been in rships before but I realized that I'm much happier being single. Not because I was with the wrong partner but because I'm just too damn selfish with my time now.

Genuine question: Based on my understanding, self centered ppl want everything to revolve around them which means they love themselves very much more than they love others so what makes u think there's still room for another person in yr heart in future?

depends on what u want in life.

U can only do so many things at a time.

for example, you do A, B and C, already full commitment in effort and time and concentration, focus.

If u wanna do Marriage, then need to sacrifice either A, B or C.
some people say, if they dont get married, can focus on A,B and C more. for example, career, make money etc.
if this is what u want in life, then dont get married.

but if u also want to build a family, have kids etc, then all these need attention and focus also. so it effects the amount of time u can pour into money making and career.

but if family is what u want, then go ahead.

I ask you, if you don't get married, what are you going to do?

remain single?

how has that been?

are you doing anything interesting by yourself ?
Do you feel that your circle of friends are reducing?
Do you feel the need to be with someone or share your life with someone?
or are you contended being by yourself? You like doing things by yourself?

Fallacy statement. I'm married but I never regret. It has and always will be the decision that I'll make. Sometime in life, with too many options, you will experience not fulfilling life because everyday you are dealing with " what if". If the life really works with "what if", there will not be any beggar on the street.

Are you a male or female? Your age?

If you have been single all this while…never been in a relationship as a male….it looks bleak for ya…

You gotta be prepared to looksmaxxing hard. Most men are not born with the quality of a chad. A chad is a totally different quality.

You just be there, didnt open your mouth. And women in your class, in your workplace, random women in the streets will look for way to chat with you, asking random question. Exchange contacts. Look further from you.

If you are not naturally born like this. You gotta workhard with looksmaxxing, as what new gen call it this days. Your probably at best 5/10 and below. Hit the gym, look up tiktok eboys that women thirst iver and what fashion style they are wearing.

Start practising mewing long term to get your face more masculine angular look…current online dating and even physical dating is mostly all about the looks.

Even for man. If you are born short…anything like below 170cm…you are living your life in hard mode when it comes to dating life as a man…theres some young dude i know in this forum. Good looking guy. Rich family.

Even own a brand new 3 series, but they never been in a relationship nvr have a gf all his life. Not fat, not skinny. He was just short. Below 165cm…