Really tak paham why most reply here focus on the solution instead of solving the root cause first?

Yall keep giving suggestion after suggestion when TS only just gave half baked details.

Late 30's, above average, financial stable but yet to score a decent dude? Does not sounds fishy and red flag to you meh?

I don't mean disrespect or look down on you TS. But if you want alternatives from public, you need to at least come clean about yourself too.