Exactly! Suddenly all relatives come chip in the recipes of what they heard from someone. Some even say no need do, just go eat this and that will recover. Thats the whole problem.

Went to Dr.Yip from SJMC / Parkcity btw. https://subangjayamedicalcentre.com/doctor-...r-yip-cheng-har <-- very straightforward doctor.

No man even the Americans and English with cancer I talk to say Brca isn't for everyone with cancer those like my wife who are on the fence like not needing chemo 50% to 50% needing chemo do well with Brca test. It's very niche.

my former went to ampang gleneagles for an op, sadly, it was not properly done. went for 2nd op at damansara specialist centre, after goin for 2nd opinion. can't remember the doc name, but a chinese male around 50+, but that was a decade ago. hers was in early stage. had her one side breast removed. before all this, did went to singapore gleneagles for opinions too. it includes reconstruct for artificial breast.

she was cleared of c, but need to go for checkups on certain month...

*bang head against the wall*

Op is already dealing with the news she has breast cancer. Not to forget the impending chemo and radiation therapy and here you come in saying did you shave your armpits? It's kinda your fault for getting cancer then.

If you said this to my wife, I would have socked you in the face right there and then.