Quite d opposite

They usually host in 5star properties - avoid raids

Knows the risk associated with unprotected sex - uses protection and methods of avoiding it while have fun

And are very well groomed - nice body and dressing (the person fucking my wife should be same or better looking than me likewise when other party look at me etc)

They are usually educated, upper echelons of m40  who have the time n money to groom themselves ..