Bank forgave the debt. Literally.
My Dad's Credit Card Debt
My Dad's Credit Card Debt
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Dec 23 2023, 08:32 PM
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Bank forgave the debt. Literally.
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Dec 23 2023, 08:38 PM
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Dec 23 2023, 08:44 PM
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Just want to repeat what others have already said. You are not liable for your father's debt.
1. Settle what you are legally obliged to do 2 . Then settle your religious requirements. Don't mix the two. |
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Dec 23 2023, 08:48 PM
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That cannot be inherited.. The bank need to absorb it or write it off
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Dec 23 2023, 10:55 PM
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Dec 24 2023, 02:04 AM
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By law. You don't have to pay. Just forget about it and move on. Or just donate the sums owed periodically to charity.
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Dec 24 2023, 02:13 AM
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Dec 27 2023, 12:32 PM
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I've read all the replies and input. I will seek Syariah's lawyer for consultation and advice as soon as I can. I'll try to post the updates later. InsyaAllah. Thank you everyone. xtreme_paranoid liked this post
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Apr 2 2025, 08:30 PM
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Finally remember to give an update. I contacted the bank directly. Let them know of my dad's demise, his outstanding debt and my intention to help him settle. I explained my situation and request for leniency and reduction of the total amount. So, everything is good now. Tak payah pening2 fikir lawyer apa semua. Approach the bank 1st, and dapatkan settlement amount. 😅 gashout and cempedaklife liked this post
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Apr 2 2025, 08:55 PM
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QUOTE(its.jay @ Apr 2 2025, 08:30 PM) Finally remember to give an update. I thought after didnt pay for more than 7 years, consider GG already?I contacted the bank directly. Let them know of my dad's demise, his outstanding debt and my intention to help him settle. I explained my situation and request for leniency and reduction of the total amount. So, everything is good now. Tak payah pening2 fikir lawyer apa semua. Approach the bank 1st, and dapatkan settlement amount. 😅 |
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Apr 2 2025, 09:02 PM
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hi,
if got harta want to divide like faraid, so hutang also get the faraid member to help! are you only the child? do your father have other siblings, if yes ask for their help. basically just go to the bank, nego elok-elok... maybe bank can waive the interest and only pay the pokok... |
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Apr 2 2025, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(its.jay @ Apr 2 2025, 08:30 PM) Finally remember to give an update. How much they reduced?I contacted the bank directly. Let them know of my dad's demise, his outstanding debt and my intention to help him settle. I explained my situation and request for leniency and reduction of the total amount. So, everything is good now. Tak payah pening2 fikir lawyer apa semua. Approach the bank 1st, and dapatkan settlement amount. 😅 |
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Apr 2 2025, 11:41 PM
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Apr 3 2025, 03:06 AM
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just came across this thread..surprised to see many naïve response..Credit card and personal loans, if you die, the debt dies with you..there will be provision to write it off..dont be stupid to get your kids/spouse to settle it off.. car and housing loans are different of course.. max_cavalera, mataharih, and 2 others liked this post
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Apr 3 2025, 08:09 AM
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QUOTE(its.jay @ Apr 2 2025, 08:30 PM) Finally remember to give an update. glad things worked out.I contacted the bank directly. Let them know of my dad's demise, his outstanding debt and my intention to help him settle. I explained my situation and request for leniency and reduction of the total amount. So, everything is good now. Tak payah pening2 fikir lawyer apa semua. Approach the bank 1st, and dapatkan settlement amount. 😅 can share how much did the bank reduce? |
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Apr 3 2025, 08:10 AM
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QUOTE(youngblood29us @ Apr 3 2025, 03:06 AM) just came across this thread..surprised to see many naïve response..Credit card and personal loans, if you die, the debt dies with you..there will be provision to write it off..dont be stupid to get your kids/spouse to settle it off.. but ts chose to help her father to clear the debt... bank also happycar and housing loans are different of course.. its.jay liked this post
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Apr 3 2025, 12:10 PM
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Apr 3 2025, 12:19 PM
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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Apr 2 2025, 08:55 PM) The debt memang GG the day the father passed on.TS wanted to pay it off as part of her moral obligations rather than legal side. Nothing wrong with that. Banks of course happy, better than zero. JimbeamofNRT, max_cavalera, and 2 others liked this post
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Apr 3 2025, 12:20 PM
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hmm good. but you know you dont have to pay right? furthermore there is Stature of Limitation Act, which means after 6 years no action the debt will be written off. mataharih liked this post
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Apr 3 2025, 12:26 PM
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QUOTE(giorno9 @ Apr 2 2025, 09:02 PM) hi, i'm not the only child, but I'm the only one having the capability to pay. He only have one sister left and she already waive her rights for faraid share. But all is good. Thankfully the bank accept paying in installments even after reducing the total amount.if got harta want to divide like faraid, so hutang also get the faraid member to help! are you only the child? do your father have other siblings, if yes ask for their help. basically just go to the bank, nego elok-elok... maybe bank can waive the interest and only pay the pokok... |
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