I saw a video. The video says the guy matched 2 girls on the same dating app. They started texting and then he went out with 1 after another.

On the first outing with the 2nd girl, the 1st girl bumped into them and accused him of cheating saying he went out with 1st girl and said to each other they vibe good.

The 2nd girl also said it's not right that he said he vibe with 1st girl and still looking around.

What do you think?

well, if not caught, probably no issue, since only 1 date nia... unless got happy ending then different story liao...

owai--

only low quality guy will bump into this kind of scenario obviously he didnt set the right expectation from the beginning thats why both the girls felt surprised and angry

U know what? I have female friends who openly say they went out with multiple guys from dating apps in same time frame because she don't want to waste too much time looking for the right guy.

That came out from a girl.

Does this suddenly become justified now?

I think not cause they are not even in a relationship yet?

in the eyes of females, equality can be skewed

Clarify 1st term "Cheating".

In what relationship and condition in between called Cheat?
Mutual agreement established from both side? Or 1st date also can consider as gf/bf relationship?

Nope. Unless you have the talk with the girl to be exclusive then yeah. If no such talk no issue.

Not cheating if not into serious relationship. Poor man just looking into his options

yet to officialize the serious relationship, so consider not cheating

dating stage is dating stage. getting to know stage.
especially if only 1 or 2 dates.

u r not committed yet.
u can get to know other potentials before you move forward with anyone.
once u do move forward, then its a different story.

girls do this also. choose between their suitors. how to choose? get to know them and go on dates.

if u have 5 options, then only date one at a time?
which one to date first? roll dice?
then how many dates per person? by the time u finish dating no.1, no.3 to no.5 all fedup waiting already.

waste of time also.

All this things, as long didn't happen to diri sendiri, it's all ok

Imagine one of those female friends saw one of those guys with other girl

Immediately pass judgment, semua laki tak boleh percaya

But anyway, for TS, it is fine because there is no commitment and they're not in relationship, so it's ok.

What cheating.

No one has committed anything yet.

this isn't cheating... this is sui duo hao (衰多口) use the same sentence on different girl.


say got good vibe... but are they in relationship or not 1st? if isn't, it's not cheating. the most you blacklist the guy only.

No, of course not.

Couple need to be exclusive first.

I know women also do the same with different guys and even keep their dating profiles active in apps when they just started to know a guy but why they wanna accuse like this?

Even at some point, some ppl tell me if you really wanna focus ur resources on 1 girl, u dun do diversification. U focus on 1 girl only. Got logic?

By that logic girls who are meeting loads of guys are cheating?

If it is not exclusive, then it is not cheating. First meeting sudah nak claim? Sohai betul

dating app = single
go on date = single
if go on date means couple, a lot of girls i went out with have cheated on their husbands/bfs with me.

now only i know i m such a player

There's 2 school of thoughts. Date 1 at at time. Another one is see multiple woman at a time. See which one you prefer.

it happened to you TS?

poor you

anyway, no it's not cheating

Not TS, his friend 😉

Not me la. But I was thinking what if it happened to me.

to a man, it's only cheating if there is sexual intercourse meaning penetration. even getting BJ is not cheating according to Bill Clinton.

but to a woman, merely looking or thinking about another woman is consider cheating

At least TS knows which 2 girls to avoid at all cost

Easy

If the tinder girl you went out with decided to two time you

You like it or not

If you don’t like it consider yes

If you don’t mind consider no

Im in the school that its good for the man to let a woman have some competition. That competition can be real or even imagined (in her mind).

For some men, even sex is not cheating. Many men go cheong and dont consider that cheating.

i got a female fren, she can come out with many different guy from dating app

she said, if i don't meet them, how do i know which 1 suits me?

but when guy did it is considered cheating
fml

Hahahahah wth?

sounds logic, you cant just deny meeting other guy when just meet 1 guy, what if that guy doesnt suit?
then is wasting the girl's youth

girl youth is worth, guy's youth is not

i remember quite a few girls in cupid corner who commented that guy should demonstrate their true love by chasing only one girl at one moment.

even if the girl rejected the guy, the guy should continue to wait and chase (in order to demonstrate his true love for her)

u see how biased their perspective is

A few years back, that was before COVID time when dating apps were widely used. I met up one girl and she honestly told me that she could easily get more than 10 likes from CMB in just one day. You can imagine how many guys she could chat/ghost in just one day.

This post has been edited by justapawn: Jan 2 2024, 03:16 PM

male orbiter
essentially acting like feminine hoping to get their approvals
ewwwwww, hell no

That is really true, nothing to be surprised about. I once told my ex colleague who is in her 40s to create a CMB account. Just a few days later, she showed me her account and the amount of matches and likes she has, it is mind blowing. In the end, she closed her account bcs too much notifications and likes and too many chat windows.

I tried soul app recently
the amount of creepiness by these guys and nonchalance by these 00s girls is just mindblowing

There is another point worth taking note as a guy. That girl I met was just slightly above average in terms of appearance. You can imagine what can happen to those girls whose appearance rated 8/10 and above.

its just testing phase nothing official yet how can be called cheating

The options are there, since it's not official.

Its dating app where anyone is allowed to fish and choose. how is that deceitful?

I think this is not consider cheating coz they are not in a relationship and when both are single, they absolutely have the right to date with another people. Unless they already confirm the relationship as couple between them.

The girl is likely doing the same. Probably seeing more than 10 guys for free lunch/dinner

I don't think this consider as cheating, because you matched with someone on dating apps doesn't mean that you 2 now officially a couple. Don't know about others but cheating in relationship means that you're dating/sleeping/FWB with someone else while you yourself already married/engaged/got a gf/bf already.

Why did the girl say cheating when they are not attached?

Is the girl going to be responsible if she rejects him and he wasted all the other opportunities?