I saw a video. The video says the guy matched 2 girls on the same dating app. They started texting and then he went out with 1 after another.

On the first outing with the 2nd girl, the 1st girl bumped into them and accused him of cheating saying he went out with 1st girl and said to each other they vibe good.

The 2nd girl also said it's not right that he said he vibe with 1st girl and still looking around.

What do you think?

well, if not caught, probably no issue, since only 1 date nia... unless got happy ending then different story liao...

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only low quality guy will bump into this kind of scenario obviously he didnt set the right expectation from the beginning thats why both the girls felt surprised and angry

U know what? I have female friends who openly say they went out with multiple guys from dating apps in same time frame because she don't want to waste too much time looking for the right guy.

That came out from a girl.

Does this suddenly become justified now?

I think not cause they are not even in a relationship yet?

in the eyes of females, equality can be skewed

Clarify 1st term "Cheating".

In what relationship and condition in between called Cheat?
Mutual agreement established from both side? Or 1st date also can consider as gf/bf relationship?

Nope. Unless you have the talk with the girl to be exclusive then yeah. If no such talk no issue.

Not cheating if not into serious relationship. Poor man just looking into his options

yet to officialize the serious relationship, so consider not cheating

dating stage is dating stage. getting to know stage.
especially if only 1 or 2 dates.

u r not committed yet.
u can get to know other potentials before you move forward with anyone.
once u do move forward, then its a different story.

girls do this also. choose between their suitors. how to choose? get to know them and go on dates.

if u have 5 options, then only date one at a time?
which one to date first? roll dice?
then how many dates per person? by the time u finish dating no.1, no.3 to no.5 all fedup waiting already.

waste of time also.

All this things, as long didn't happen to diri sendiri, it's all ok

Imagine one of those female friends saw one of those guys with other girl

Immediately pass judgment, semua laki tak boleh percaya

But anyway, for TS, it is fine because there is no commitment and they're not in relationship, so it's ok.

What cheating.

No one has committed anything yet.

this isn't cheating... this is sui duo hao (衰多口) use the same sentence on different girl.


say got good vibe... but are they in relationship or not 1st? if isn't, it's not cheating. the most you blacklist the guy only.

No, of course not.

Couple need to be exclusive first.

I know women also do the same with different guys and even keep their dating profiles active in apps when they just started to know a guy but why they wanna accuse like this?

Even at some point, some ppl tell me if you really wanna focus ur resources on 1 girl, u dun do diversification. U focus on 1 girl only. Got logic?

By that logic girls who are meeting loads of guys are cheating?

If it is not exclusive, then it is not cheating. First meeting sudah nak claim? Sohai betul

dating app = single
go on date = single
if go on date means couple, a lot of girls i went out with have cheated on their husbands/bfs with me.

now only i know i m such a player

There's 2 school of thoughts. Date 1 at at time. Another one is see multiple woman at a time. See which one you prefer.

it happened to you TS?

poor you

anyway, no it's not cheating