It's called Biology? You can't stop man from looking and woman and vice versa.

I find woman very odd, they can look at anything they like but refrain man from looking.

Every healthy man will look, regardless marry or not, even you are super attractive that can beat top models out there. They will still look. It's just how biology is, but it doesn't mean that we want them as wife or soul mate for life. It's just a physical attraction with no connection.