you scare he will cheat on you. How about he constantly asks you whether you'll go on a boat party with some random instagram star?

Its the same kind of insecurity
i think you both have better issues to focus on

married for 7 years, unlikely to be that frequency
even im the husband, suddenly the wife so on
I will also think maybe she done wrong things behind me and try to compensate

There are some ex players who had threesomes and sexadventures before settling down, and having a great families now. But it can be minority