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TSlcloon
post Dec 12 2023, 05:12 PM, updated 2y ago

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Hi guys….
My girlfriend just told me that she plan to get a new phone and another new phone number.
I asked, why does she need a new number? Her reply is, she doesn’t want her old phone to be left unused.
She is just a normal nurse working in a private hospital. She doesn’t have any own business to take care of. She also doesn’t travel aboard frequently. I argued with her so much and she still telling me that owning a 2nd phone number is normal. But, to me, it’s totally not normal. (When I said “not normal”, I strongly believed that many of you out there will have lots of opinions to voice out)
Here, I hope I can get some helpful & constructive opinions and advices from you all. Thank you.

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post Dec 12 2023, 05:21 PM

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owning a 2nd phone number is normal
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post Dec 12 2023, 05:25 PM

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owning a 2nd phone number is normal.

i think the 'not normal" is you urself.

let it be la .. or u can let it go
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post Dec 12 2023, 05:27 PM

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post Dec 12 2023, 05:35 PM

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owning a second phone/number is normal..
i think your main problem is you're not trusting her reason of having 2 phones/number.. address that then you're ok..
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post Dec 12 2023, 05:35 PM

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you argue because you scare she sleeps with random dudes only. Get a life lah bro
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post Dec 12 2023, 05:38 PM

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I got 3 numbers on 3 phones. So, it is normal.

1 number for work.
1 number for personal or socmed.
1 number for bank or financial apps. This phone no socmed or chat apps. All incoming calls blocked except for bank support numbers. Outgoing also blocked (permissions denied on Android).
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post Dec 12 2023, 06:33 PM

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Dude. I have 2 numbers. One for banking only and another for other purpose. You need to trust her. If not you will always worry.

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post Dec 12 2023, 07:55 PM

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I have 2 numbers. Used to have 6. So......what's so abnormal? lol
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post Dec 12 2023, 07:58 PM

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Not normal for girl.
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post Dec 12 2023, 09:21 PM

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Quarreling about 2nd phone number is not normal.
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post Dec 12 2023, 09:24 PM

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Since u don't trust her, better just break up for good. Women these days don't need knights in white armour to save them.
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post Dec 13 2023, 07:18 AM

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It's absolutely normal. The current generation generally have 2 phones- 1 for personal use, another one for socmed.
Since you mentioned she is a nurse, maybe she is the kind hearted ones who share her number with her patients/patient's family members in case of medical advice.
You're thinking too much bro.
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post Dec 13 2023, 09:46 AM

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QUOTE(lcloon @ Dec 12 2023, 05:12 PM)
Hi guys….
My girlfriend just told me that she plan to get a new phone and another new phone number.
I asked, why does she need a new number? Her reply is, she doesn’t want her old phone to be left unused.
She is just a normal nurse working in a private hospital. She doesn’t have any own business to take care of. She also doesn’t travel aboard frequently. I argued with her so much and she still telling me that owning a 2nd phone number is normal. But, to me, it’s totally not normal. (When I said “not normal”, I strongly believed that many of you out there will have lots of opinions to voice out)
Here, I hope I can get some helpful & constructive opinions and advices from you all. Thank you.
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very normal to have 2 phone number
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post Dec 13 2023, 09:50 AM

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Normal a... I personally having 3 numbers too.
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post Dec 13 2023, 10:03 AM

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Relax man....2 numbers is normal, as long as she shares that number with you too.

If you fear she use the second number for other scandals then she not worth it. She can still have scandals with one number.




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post Dec 13 2023, 08:08 PM

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Just chipping in, my gf has 4 phones, her purpose is to take advantage of multiple accounts to accumulate all those deals and points for discount and freebies, whenever she buys something, it is almost free because of all the points she accumulated by hunting down the deals and games in the online shopping apps. This behavior of hers saved everyone a lot of money when buying things we need, and I appreciate that. It's her hobby too so she is enjoying doing it, sometimes she even prioritize doing it when I am right beside her, need to wait her finish before we can have our spicy time.
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post Dec 13 2023, 10:42 PM

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yes, normal to have 2 or more numbers

i'm afraid to tell you that you are the one not normal, some more argue with her on this issue.
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:15 PM

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2 or more numbers is normal

What is not normal is she cannot give reason for it.

That said, if she wanted to do something behind your back, she would have gotten a 2nd number without you knowing la
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:19 PM

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I have so many phone numbers until my wife ask me which phone number can reach you??!

I guess it's the trust... She knows I like keeping VVIP numbers...
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:23 PM

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Goodluck... It's not good sign tbh...
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(cempedaklife @ Dec 12 2023, 09:21 PM)
Quarreling about 2nd phone number is not normal.
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Nuff said...

TS, why did you argue about this in the first place? What's bothering you?
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:51 PM

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idk why this bother TS so much.
Are you need to pay for smth?
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post Dec 14 2023, 06:37 AM

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its normal

i know some wants 2 1 mainly for work use and another for personal

i have 2 phones with 2 numbers too
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post Dec 15 2023, 11:12 AM

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2nd phone number is normal nowadays

It will still depends whether you have a trust on her
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post Dec 15 2023, 11:15 AM

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one for work, one for personal.

i understand if work phone need to be made public.
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post Dec 15 2023, 02:51 PM

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It’s normal for having 2 mobile phone these day. Myself having 4 number haha
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post Dec 15 2023, 03:03 PM

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post Dec 15 2023, 03:04 PM

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QUOTE(Satori 14118a @ Dec 15 2023, 11:15 AM)
one for work, one for personal.

i understand if work phone need to be made public.
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for work then ask company pay for it :X
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post Dec 15 2023, 03:07 PM

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Hmmm...its normal..as long as she is not two timing


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post Dec 15 2023, 03:10 PM

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ts being insecure hmm.gif
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post Dec 15 2023, 03:11 PM

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i understand u jeles u maybe think she cheated on u and so on. the question now, do u believe in her ? if u believe her then go on. if u don't, then what are u waiting for ?
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post Dec 15 2023, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Dec 12 2023, 05:35 PM)
you argue because you scare she sleeps with random dudes only. Get a life lah bro
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post Dec 15 2023, 03:18 PM

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There was a time when I was obsessed with getting numbers with good rhythms that I kept registering new numbers months after months. Even my wife was like why do you keep getting new numbers... eventually let go some of the older numbers. At one point I had 6 or 7 numbers... 2 phones with 4 sims, another 2 used in tablet and elder son phone. Even had 1 extra to lend to mom to let her try other network. My clients also pening see new numbers every month calling them.

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sourcream47
post Jan 31 2024, 06:54 PM

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Nowadays using two number is very normal. At least she got telling you that she want to have another number rather than she own another number without let you know. And you can have her two numbers too, don't argue for a phone number bro.
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post Jan 31 2024, 07:27 PM

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QUOTE(Chaud @ Dec 14 2023, 06:37 AM)
its normal

i know some wants 2 1 mainly for work use and another for personal

i have 2 phones with 2 numbers too
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same here 1 phone with 2 numbers

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