Hi guys….
My girlfriend just told me that she plan to get a new phone and another new phone number.
I asked, why does she need a new number? Her reply is, she doesn’t want her old phone to be left unused.
She is just a normal nurse working in a private hospital. She doesn’t have any own business to take care of. She also doesn’t travel aboard frequently. I argued with her so much and she still telling me that owning a 2nd phone number is normal. But, to me, it’s totally not normal. (When I said “not normal”, I strongly believed that many of you out there will have lots of opinions to voice out)
Here, I hope I can get some helpful & constructive opinions and advices from you all. Thank you.

This post has been edited by lcloon: Dec 12 2023, 05:15 PM

owning a 2nd phone number is normal

owning a 2nd phone number is normal.

i think the 'not normal" is you urself.

let it be la .. or u can let it go

Tell her main use hotspot je



This post has been edited by stupiak07: Dec 12 2023, 05:28 PM

owning a second phone/number is normal..
i think your main problem is you're not trusting her reason of having 2 phones/number.. address that then you're ok..

you argue because you scare she sleeps with random dudes only. Get a life lah bro

I got 3 numbers on 3 phones. So, it is normal.

1 number for work.
1 number for personal or socmed.
1 number for bank or financial apps. This phone no socmed or chat apps. All incoming calls blocked except for bank support numbers. Outgoing also blocked (permissions denied on Android).

Dude. I have 2 numbers. One for banking only and another for other purpose. You need to trust her. If not you will always worry.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Dec 12 2023, 08:49 PM

I have 2 numbers. Used to have 6. So......what's so abnormal? lol

Not normal for girl.

Quarreling about 2nd phone number is not normal.

Since u don't trust her, better just break up for good. Women these days don't need knights in white armour to save them.

It's absolutely normal. The current generation generally have 2 phones- 1 for personal use, another one for socmed.
Since you mentioned she is a nurse, maybe she is the kind hearted ones who share her number with her patients/patient's family members in case of medical advice.
You're thinking too much bro.

very normal to have 2 phone number
dont kampung

Normal a... I personally having 3 numbers too.

Relax man....2 numbers is normal, as long as she shares that number with you too.

If you fear she use the second number for other scandals then she not worth it. She can still have scandals with one number.

Just chipping in, my gf has 4 phones, her purpose is to take advantage of multiple accounts to accumulate all those deals and points for discount and freebies, whenever she buys something, it is almost free because of all the points she accumulated by hunting down the deals and games in the online shopping apps. This behavior of hers saved everyone a lot of money when buying things we need, and I appreciate that. It's her hobby too so she is enjoying doing it, sometimes she even prioritize doing it when I am right beside her, need to wait her finish before we can have our spicy time.

yes, normal to have 2 or more numbers

i'm afraid to tell you that you are the one not normal, some more argue with her on this issue.

2 or more numbers is normal

What is not normal is she cannot give reason for it.

That said, if she wanted to do something behind your back, she would have gotten a 2nd number without you knowing la

I have so many phone numbers until my wife ask me which phone number can reach you??!

I guess it's the trust... She knows I like keeping VVIP numbers...