Not the last straw event but the most hateful event. Knowing there is lunch or dinner date but they make you wait or knowing your lunch/dinner schedule but make date 1-2h after your eating schedule. End result = hungry = not a pleasant outcome.

Whenever it happens, it will always ended with me throwing out some unpleasant words. The good part, the damn wife know how to pacify the anger effectively everytime.

You want the lasting marriage - know what can pacify your partner like the toxin vs antidote.