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Maid issue, Maid started to use phone
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cdspins
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Oct 20 2023, 03:16 AM
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If you don't allow maid to use phone, at first, you should keep phone and only pass to the maid during her off time and collect back after usage. If the maid keep her phone herself then it is difficult to restrict phone usage. Lastly, you left your 6 month old children with the maid only, there is no other senior or adults around?
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cdspins
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Oct 20 2023, 06:16 AM
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QUOTE(furuku89 @ Oct 20 2023, 03:33 AM) She work from 6am to 8-9pm, but there are times she sleep with my baby if we back home late and ask her not to wait us and bring the baby sleep with her. Nowadays agency set rules that only allow once a week, afraid they keep use phone will affect their productivity. We kept the phone and she knows where is it, but we didn’t expect she will curi curi take. Yes, both of us working adults. There are some days we are not at home. As far as what we monitored, she has been doing good and treating my daughter like my own daughter. After discussion with my wife, I think we let her use phone from 9pm to 11pm daily, on sunday we let her use whole day. I think is much better compare to other maid outside. I know majority outside doesn’t allow any phone usage unless weekend or only few hours on weekend. Maybe should considered locking it so that the maid cannot take it. For my case, I set router to blacklist the phone MAC address and only allow WIFI 3 hours a days and on weekends. See what is convenient to implement for you.
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cdspins
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Oct 20 2023, 06:23 AM
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TS, just an advise, maybe is applicable for you maybe is not. If possible try not to leave babies with maid for long hours. Maybe you and your wife need to stagger or arrange work so that one WFH or take turns to be at home or have relatives overseer or maybe baby day care. If possible don't leave babies with maid more than 3 to 4 hours. The maid maybe very good but still baby cannot talk and anything happens, you will not known as baby cannot tell you parents.
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