Communication is a basic need. Look at all the communication apps. Look at you coming on to lowyat.net, opening a thread about your maid, ranting about how difficult your life is, that you are working adults and that you have no time and directing your maid to sleep with your newborn child, coming onto lowyat trying to justify your actions, even though all she did was such a tiny infraction and inconsequential to her work. Now imagine how your maid, coming to a new country and place, away from her family feels, without anyone to speak to