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TSredracer2004
post Oct 16 2023, 01:40 PM, updated 3y ago

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Well, I heard somebody saying that you do not split the bill no matter what on the first date even if it isn't good.

So what do you think?
TSredracer2004
post Oct 16 2023, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(Duckies @ Oct 16 2023, 01:43 PM)
I also feel not good la...as a guy gentlemen sikit. Unless the opposite side is a biatch that leech for free food.
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But how would we know she leech free food? She might come out all nice and all, then later say "Sorry I only see you as friend aka brother"
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post Oct 17 2023, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(Leto @ Oct 17 2023, 01:15 PM)
how much you talking about
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Say whole bill about 80-150.

QUOTE(-mystery- @ Oct 17 2023, 01:27 PM)
Ive been ghosted after first date as low as rm30
If a girl initates split bill on initial meeting, its usually no 2nd time again as a courtesy
if i genuinely find her boring and borderline impolite (ie keep looking at her phone), i will also ask her to split
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Well I had a worse incident.

Girl agreed to go out for whole day, literally Lunch till Dinner + Movie in middle.

Everything I paid including popcorn and all.

End up, no more dates and "Sorry, I see you as a brother only"

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post Oct 18 2023, 10:32 AM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Oct 18 2023, 08:14 AM)
I just don't want do the stupid, awkward wallet dance with the guy when it's time to pay for the meal. It's better to be upfront abt it.

Anyway it's almost 2024 now...i don't understand why society still expects guys to pay. Such an archaic mindset lol.
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Are you single and looking to mingle right now? (Probably the dumbest question to ask)

 

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