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 Splitting bill on the first date, Even if the date didn't go well?

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parisiansky
post Oct 17 2023, 06:16 PM

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As a girl, I'd prefer to go Dutch all the way. If I'm capable of earning my own money, I should be capable of paying for my own share.

Also, I don't wanna feel like I owe the guy anything if I'm not vibing with him throughout the date.

There are many ways for a guy to show his gentleman side so don't limit him to just footing the bill.
parisiansky
post Oct 17 2023, 09:43 PM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Oct 17 2023, 08:48 PM)
In practice, how do you do this on a first date?

Do you call for the bill yourself and ask for separate bills?

Do you discuss it with the guy? Then do the calculator thing?

Or maybe quickly swipe first then ask him to transfer money to u?

All very romantic stuff 😆
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I'd inform him about it before we go on our 1st date.
parisiansky
post Oct 18 2023, 08:14 AM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Oct 18 2023, 07:32 AM)
Interesting. I never faced this one b4.

Usually its offer to share at end of meal or the next one on me thing.
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I just don't want do the stupid, awkward wallet dance with the guy when it's time to pay for the meal. It's better to be upfront abt it.

Anyway it's almost 2024 now...i don't understand why society still expects guys to pay. Such an archaic mindset lol.

 

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