1. financial ready

2. thinking and mindset maturity

3. goals and visions alignment

that are the key factors that I believe will determine are you ready for marriage life. you can list out these and evaluate your current relationship does it have all of the above and then discuss with your partner.

emotions may change but it's whether both you and partner willing to align from time to time to make the relationship works

btw, after you get married, remember to practise self love and self care as well, nothing last forever, that's the reality of life