Advantages of marriage I can think of:

1. children

2. Better financial security for the other

Marriage is a big deal. If its not in your plan and its in hers then better be frank about it.

Womanising and having many partners is very tiring after a while.

I actually found that dating in my mid 40s were much easier than when I was in my mid 20s.

Seemed we have moved on from the actual TS issue..but since TS is MIA..

Anyhow here is my take on this money thing.

There are 3 things that men have that attracts a woman or if men dont have that turns girls off.

1. Physical: Looks, height, physique etc

2. Resources to share: wealth, income including future potential for the younger ones.

3. Personality: Charisma, confidence, mental frame, game etc.

Each has a scoring. All girls unconciously will score a guy on these items. Its also very subjective. A spoilt rich girl will have a different standard of resource compared to a B40 girl.

If a guy has a very strong score on one item, it can compensate for poor scores in the other 2. However, if a guy has good scores in all 3, he will have plenty of options.

My view is that a man can and should do thngs that improve all his 3 scores. It takes time and effort but this will make him to be not only more attractive to women but also a more succesful/happier man in life.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jun 13 2024, 12:15 PM