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TShaya
post Aug 8 2023, 07:20 AM, updated 3y ago

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Three families disown sons with gambling addictions
By CHARLES RAMENDRAN
Nation
Monday, 07 Aug 2023
7:02 PM MYT

KUALA LUMPUR: After constantly being harassed and humiliated by loan sharks or Ah Long, three families have made the extreme decision of disowning their children who took the loans and defaulted on payments.

A 50-year-old businesswoman, who only wanted to be known as Kong from Ayer Tawar, Perak said her 23-year-old son had taken loans amounting to hundreds of thousands and lost it all to online gambling.

She said that she settled her son's debts of RM500,000 in May 2022 and advised him to repent and seek employment in Singapore.

In June this year, Kong began receiving threats from loan sharks before her house and that of her in-laws were splashed with red paint two weeks ago. The loan sharks also threatened to burn down their houses.

Kong gave in to the loan shark's demands and paid over RM21,000 but they demanded another RM5,000, claiming the payment was late by 10 minutes.

When she refused, her shop was splashed with red paint two days later.

In another case in Johor Baru, the family of a 48-year-old housewife, who did not want to be named, suffered similar harassment from loan sharks when her 21-year-old son borrowed money, also to lose it gambling online.

Beautician Rico Loh, 27, said her brother often borrowed money from family members and took loans from about 20 Ah Long.

She said her family paid RM150,000 to settle debts with loan sharks but just days later, her brother took another loan for RM70,000 from the Ah Long.

In a third case, a 71-year-old retiree who only wanted to be known as Lee said he had to give up his Employees Provident Fund (EPF) savings to settle RM500,000 in loans his 37-year-old son took from almost 50 loan sharks since 2019, also to feed a gambling addiction.

All three families turned up at the MCA Public Services and Complaints Department at Wisma MCA here on Monday (Aug 7) making the announcement to disown their sons.

The department's head Datuk Seri Michael Chong said the affected families were left with no other choices but to disown their sons due to the constant harassment from Ah Longs.

"These are not just loan sharks but extortionists. They lure people into taking loans by advertising in social media platforms and only give out a fraction of the amount sought.

"Later, they demand the full sum and resort to violence for repayment. The thugs are runners who are paid RM400 for each job they carry out." he said.

Chong said his department has handled about 199 such cases, involving a total loan amount of RM18.7mil, this year.

He said 53 of those involved were women and 80% of the borrowers are Chinese.

Source: https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2023...ling-addictions
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:23 AM

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post Aug 8 2023, 07:25 AM

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In a third case, a 71-year-old retiree who only wanted to be known as Lee said he had to give up his Employees Provident Fund (EPF) savings to settle RM500,000 in loans his 37-year-old son took from almost 50 loan sharks since 2019, also to feed a gambling addiction.


Gov said 240k EPF for retirement enough lel, not yet account for charsiew children
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:25 AM

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QUOTE(Capt. Marble @ Aug 8 2023, 07:23 AM)
Judi adalah salah and memusnahkan keluarga... PAS was right all along.
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Careful for what you wish for, because one could say the same for religion
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:26 AM

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mental illness

What mental illness is associated with gambling?
Mental health issues.

People who gamble compulsively often have substance misuse problems, personality disorders, depression or anxiety. Compulsive gambling may also be associated with bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditi...es/syc-20355178
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:31 AM

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worst char siew outcome of all....
they dont just destroy thier own life but drag and sometimes clean up parent coffin money........

some chinese say children r here to collect pass life debt from U

its hard to bring them back to normal salary life,

in my 40 years life,what i have learn is

gambling is the 1st habit to stop n learn from it b4 its too late

This post has been edited by poco loco: Aug 8 2023, 07:34 AM
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:35 AM

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Chared char siew.
Go self expire yourself alone, don't bring the whole family down with you, asshole

Exactly the saying, gambling addiction is one of the worst 5 vices

This post has been edited by jojolicia: Aug 8 2023, 07:37 AM
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I suddenly have a craving for charsiews...
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:46 AM

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send this to whoever u know that has gambling problem
if they don't get it and come around, they deserve to be disowned


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post Aug 8 2023, 07:46 AM

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QUOTE(haya @ Aug 8 2023, 07:25 AM)
Careful for what you wish for, because one could say the same for religion
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Leligion already doing that lo.

Taking the kids away from ...

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post Aug 8 2023, 07:53 AM

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But..but.. ktards say gambling addiction is not a thing?
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:54 AM

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QUOTE(jojolicia @ Aug 8 2023, 07:35 AM)
Chared char siew.
Go self expire yourself alone, don't bring the whole family down with you, asshole

Exactly the saying, gambling addiction is one of the worst 5 vices
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Five?

Smoking, alcohol, gambling, womanizing...

Sorry bro, what's the fifth one?

THanks in advance!
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QUOTE(Phoenix_KL @ Aug 8 2023, 07:26 AM)
mental illness

What mental illness is associated with gambling?
Mental health issues.

People who gamble compulsively often have substance misuse problems, personality disorders, depression or anxiety. Compulsive gambling may also be associated with bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditi...es/syc-20355178
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There are such examples here in /k
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post Aug 8 2023, 07:55 AM

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Ah Long is not merely illegal lenders, they are actually robbers and extortionists.
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QUOTE(Capt. Marble @ Aug 8 2023, 07:23 AM)
Judi adalah salah and memusnahkan keluarga... PAS was right all along.
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Ada orang main toto sampai hutang ah long?

Tanya je, jangan marah
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QUOTE(MR_alien @ Aug 8 2023, 07:46 AM)
send this to whoever u know that has gambling problem
if they don't get it and come around, they deserve to be disowned


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i can help u answer this

in thier head
it just need 1 time to win all back
and normal working salary they cant really wrap around thier head aready....aka if can win a bit sitting down,y need to work with sweet n blood for the same amount
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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Aug 8 2023, 07:54 AM)
Five?

Smoking, alcohol, gambling, womanizing...

Sorry bro, what's the fifth one?

THanks in advance!
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post Aug 8 2023, 08:02 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Aug 8 2023, 08:00 AM)
i can help u answer this

in thier head
it just need 1 time to win all back
and normal working salary they cant really wrap around thier head aready....aka if can win a bit sitting down,y need to work with sweet n blood for the same amount
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if you're being disowned/about to be disowned....are u still winning son? laugh.gif
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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Aug 8 2023, 07:54 AM)
Five?

Smoking, alcohol, gambling, womanizing...

Sorry bro, what's the fifth one?

THanks in advance!
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My guess is the fifth vice is drugs.

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