Married with kids, always have excuse not to work extra hours. Need to bring kids to _____(fill up yourself)

Living with someone you cannot leave will make you more mature, more mellow, in my observation. I have school mates not married, age 40 still childish.

Gosh, the amount of self brag.
Always remember, the wheel of life turns round and round.

It's a personal choice to get married or not. Don't wanna argue about it.
When I deal with unmarried individuals over a certain age, can feel they are
- self centered
- unrefined
- childish
- seldom think of repercussions.
- vulnerable, easy to manipulate.

Hence I avoid trying to deal with them. This is why you see unmarried individuals usually don't maintain a good relationship with their happily married peers. They fall out quickly, and singles always wondered what happens.
Only people who would meet them are those in toxic relationships looking for an escape, or someone who pity them.

You can already see all the behaviour I listed above here in this topic.