Im really bad at confrontation but she always pushes me to argue at the heat of the moment.

My job is stressing me out and I often find happiness in drinking with my friends, however this have caused my partner to be even more distressed.

Elaborate. What kind of argument? What's both yall boiling point? Different perspective different opinions.

1 story might be her fault and then another might be yours.

After all arguments is when both side doesn't open towards each other. Can't change what doesn't wants to.

( A blowjob sure is nice every morning than dowsing in alcohol every night)

thanks for the reply guys, really helped me to condensate my thoughts.

managed to find an article that i can well relate to

https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-he...ng-a-narcissist

have suggested her that we should see pre marriage counselling but she insists that i am the one with problem and i should be seeking help instead.

i ll try to meet a psychologist tomorrow to validate my feelings, sincerely thank everyone for giving your input in this