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 In love with vietmoi, What should I do?

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poco loco
post Jun 14 2023, 04:21 AM

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and about my gf at cambodia
we did discuss about merid and living in malaysia...nasib baik she honest to me.....and in short it dint work out...
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post Jun 14 2023, 08:31 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 14 2023, 04:11 AM)
yo....

back to ts topic

tfc or any bar/pub worker espisially foreign girl JUST NO man.....u r asking for headache.....imagine if u really merid....more headache about paper work at immgresin side.....they come here looking for money 1st.....
maybe u r the type that fall inlove easylly just like me,but downside also come with upside and that is will get bored fast too... laugh.gif
maybe we should hangout share experince

btw what age r u in now?

and if u keep looking for the one...its hard to get the 1.......just stop finding and let it come as in fate
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post Jun 14 2023, 09:12 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 14 2023, 04:11 AM)
yo....

back to ts topic

tfc or any bar/pub worker espisially foreign girl JUST NO man.....u r asking for headache.....imagine if u really merid....more headache about paper work at immgresin side.....they come here looking for money 1st.....
maybe u r the type that fall inlove easylly just like me,but downside also come with upside and that is will get bored fast too... laugh.gif
maybe we should hangout share experince

btw what age r u in now?

and if u keep looking for the one...its hard to get the 1.......just stop finding and let it come as in fate
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cannot said let it come as in fate, TS also need to action punya, the most important is "where" he go find

like money ma, money wont come as in fate, we kena go work then oni got money in return
sikongma
post Jun 14 2023, 09:19 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 13 2023, 07:47 PM)
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Look, if you take food for all around you, then it's natural, but if you only take food for her.... of course her eyes go round round biggrin.gif When we go out to eat in a group, if we take food for others (not wife/gf) we always take for those around us.

As for girls demanding you to give them... give what? Money?
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post Jun 14 2023, 11:45 AM

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QUOTE(sikongma @ Jun 14 2023, 09:19 AM)
Look, if you take food for all around you, then it's natural, but if you only take food for her.... of course her eyes go round round biggrin.gif When we go out to eat in a group, if we take food for others (not wife/gf) we always take for those around us.

As for girls demanding you to give them... give what? Money?
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err... no... if you take food for others using your own spoon/chopsticks/etc... i don't want your saliva.
Ok, if you're using dedicated cutlery for the food.
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post Jun 14 2023, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(unitron @ Jun 14 2023, 11:45 AM)
err... no...  if you take food for others using your own spoon/chopsticks/etc... i don't want your saliva.
Ok, if you're using dedicated cutlery for the food.
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Of course use the dedicated cutlery... no one would take food using individual cutlery from public dish. That's very uncultured.
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post Jun 14 2023, 03:20 PM

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QUOTE(sikongma @ Jun 14 2023, 12:21 PM)
Of course use the dedicated cutlery... no one would take food using individual cutlery from public dish. That's very uncultured.
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You'll be surprised how many uncultured people we have in society.
They so used to communal eating with family.. when they go out with friends + strangers, they forget, don't know better, or just don't care.
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post Jun 14 2023, 04:32 PM

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It's not genuine. If she is into you, she will keep in touch with you. Either that, or once she replies you (if any), then it's about $.
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post Jun 14 2023, 07:13 PM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jun 13 2023, 08:32 PM)
LMAO oh poor you... Let me try to decipher this... You probably did one of these:
- took something she dislikes (in case you're not aware, not everyone likes pork, not everyone likes veggies etc. Etc...)
- took wrong part of a chicken
- took fish along with the bones
- she's already full
- she has serious inferiority complex with her height(?!?!)

Not saying your fault, cuz the girl could've easily said what she wants and everyone's happy. But yeah, immature ones would expect you to read their minds and get upset without explaining anything when you don't meet expectations. I'm sorry that happened to you.
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I know she has boyfriend and boyfriend is a hongkie. Just that I do not like the way she treat me sometimes. Her height I think 154cm? I just offer my gentleman to help her but she did not appreciate, what more can I do?


QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 14 2023, 04:11 AM)
yo....

back to ts topic

tfc or any bar/pub worker espisially foreign girl JUST NO man.....u r asking for headache.....imagine if u really merid....more headache about paper work at immgresin side.....they come here looking for money 1st.....
maybe u r the type that fall inlove easylly just like me,but downside also come with upside and that is will get bored fast too... laugh.gif
maybe we should hangout share experince

btw what age r u in now?

and if u keep looking for the one...its hard to get the 1.......just stop finding and let it come as in fate
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I'm 35 this year. I always look for local but local always let me down hence on an accident I knew this vietmoi in wechat and fall in love. The feeling she gave me are excellent.
If I did not take action, girl might think I am not interested to them. If I take action, it might make me look like I'm a needy?

QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jun 14 2023, 08:31 AM)
Immigration paper work is not difficult, once you know what is needed. It’s more straightforward than getting msian pr
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I seriously don't mind those paper work to get her a visa. I always concern about three fundamental view. It is hard to find someone who will understand the way I think because I from a poverty family so money to me is important and I feel uncomfortable see girl simply spend the money.

QUOTE(zigen520 @ Jun 14 2023, 09:12 AM)
cannot said let it come as in fate, TS also need to action punya, the most important is "where" he go find

like money ma, money wont come as in fate, we kena go work then oni got money in return
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I do take action but in the end all failed. Not sure what happen
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post Jun 14 2023, 07:17 PM

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QUOTE(sikongma @ Jun 14 2023, 09:19 AM)
Look, if you take food for all around you, then it's natural, but if you only take food for her.... of course her eyes go round round biggrin.gif When we go out to eat in a group, if we take food for others (not wife/gf) we always take for those around us.

As for girls demanding you to give them... give what? Money?
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Money. Like signal me if together how much money will I need to give her? Request present for special occassion?

QUOTE(unitron @ Jun 14 2023, 11:45 AM)
err... no...  if you take food for others using your own spoon/chopsticks/etc... i don't want your saliva.
Ok, if you're using dedicated cutlery for the food.
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Definitely using serving cutlery. I know table manner.

QUOTE(Savor_Savvy @ Jun 14 2023, 04:32 PM)
It's not genuine. If she is into you, she will keep in touch with you. Either that, or once she replies you (if any), then it's about $.
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Till now she never reply me. I also did not find her. Maybe she already found someone who can feed her with money? But I still hope we can be friend as I interested to know TFC lifestyle and vietmoi mindset. biggrin.gif
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post Jun 14 2023, 07:33 PM

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Don’t worry Ts. So many việt mới incoming. I’m sure you will find another.

Or straight go hcmc and look. In your spare time, try pickup the language, it helps, start from basic phrases
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post Jun 15 2023, 01:28 AM

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QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jun 14 2023, 07:33 PM)
Don’t worry Ts. So many việt mới incoming. I’m sure you will find another.

Or straight go hcmc and look. In your spare time, try pickup the language, it helps, start from basic phrases
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I don't even know where to meet them? TFC? I afraid if I find those from TFC, they have other intention like want to get my money without loving me?
poco loco
post Jun 15 2023, 05:02 AM

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yesterday morning i msg my cambodia gf no reply till she start work at around 6pm
felt pain waiting for her msg too...but 1 side of me tell myself'wtf dude?she is not compile no answermy wa pun'

ya those felling do apear when i need some1 to chat with,but knowing she is not really exclusive to me....she might even doing it with other guy.....
haizzz such life huh...guess only new/other girl can erase this feeling
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post Jun 15 2023, 08:40 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 14 2023, 07:17 PM)
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You met the wrong kind of girls dude. So far not a single lady (all locals) asked me bout how much money I can give her. Do look into your social circle, something is wrong if all the girls you're interested in asked for money.
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post Jun 15 2023, 11:58 AM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 15 2023, 01:28 AM)
I don't even know where to meet them? TFC? I afraid if I find those from TFC, they have other intention like want to get my money without loving me?
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TFC again meh? can find girl at another place ma? hahahahahaha, oh ya....TS dun wan try Thai mois meh?
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post Jun 15 2023, 11:59 AM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 15 2023, 05:02 AM)
yesterday morning i msg my cambodia gf no reply till she start work at around 6pm
felt pain waiting for her msg too...but 1 side of me tell myself'wtf dude?she is not compile no answermy wa pun'

ya those felling do apear when i need some1 to chat with,but knowing she is not really exclusive to me....she might even doing it with other guy.....
haizzz such life huh...guess only new/other girl can erase this feeling
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U win, actually get a few more wit diff nationality, so u become the one who make decision but not them icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif
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post Jun 15 2023, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(zigen520 @ Jun 15 2023, 11:59 AM)
U win, actually get a few more wit diff nationality, so u become the one who make decision but not them  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif
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i planing to go vietnam ho chi min...looking for kaki jer..alone kindda boring
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post Jun 15 2023, 12:03 PM

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same je la, all the girls will use this strategies to lure fish....
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post Jun 15 2023, 04:34 PM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 15 2023, 05:02 AM)
yesterday morning i msg my cambodia gf no reply till she start work at around 6pm
felt pain waiting for her msg too...but 1 side of me tell myself'wtf dude?she is not compile no answermy wa pun'

ya those felling do apear when i need some1 to chat with,but knowing she is not really exclusive to me....she might even doing it with other guy.....
haizzz such life huh...guess only new/other girl can erase this feeling
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Yup. Almost 2 weeks I did not find her. Always see her facebook online. See her whatsapp online. At least I know she still alive. I always wanted to msg her but not dare to do so. Feel like I am disturbing her since her action is too obvious. What should I do? Every night dream about her. cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif

QUOTE(sikongma @ Jun 15 2023, 08:40 AM)
You met the wrong kind of girls dude. So far not a single lady (all locals) asked me bout how much money I can give her. Do look into your social circle, something is wrong if all the girls you're interested in asked for money.
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I hope so. Almost every girl treating me like this. My friend who is a girl tell me that I have to let them know how good I am so that they will fall for me but seems like I always never have the chance.

QUOTE(zigen520 @ Jun 15 2023, 11:58 AM)
TFC again meh? can find girl at another place ma? hahahahahaha, oh ya....TS dun wan try Thai mois meh?
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If not TFC where can I find vietmoi? I feel like local girl always look me down. Don't know is my problem or girl really look me down?

QUOTE(poco loco @ Jun 15 2023, 12:01 PM)
i planing to go vietnam ho chi min...looking for kaki jer..alone kindda boring
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Then bring her here? Or LDR?
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post Jun 15 2023, 04:37 PM

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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 15 2023, 04:34 PM)
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Actually what made you think the local girls look you down? Back when I was in highschool I didn't know I was popular with girls and always thought no one liked me and it's only until after I was out working that some girls from highschool told me that I'm actually quite popular amongst them. So it could be just your own perception that you're inferior but actually the ladies don't see that.
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