QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 6 2023, 08:28 PM)
Sorry for long story.
2 weeks ago I play wechat and I successfully added a vietmoi. She look like local chinese then after I added her only I know she is vietmoi. We have unlimited topic to talk with. When we get closer, she started to video call me.
She look so pretty although I know she work at TFC place. Actually I didn't mind she work at TFC as we are friend. As times goes by I started to fall in love with her. She know that I like her, she will take her picture to me before she work and show me how she wear, reach the place she work she will inform me, finish work also will video call me. I never feel like I have this kind of happiness before. Yesterday she told me she sick because did not reply me much.
She said she going work and I offer to fetch her and she say no because her customer will fetch her home. After that she no longer reply me till now. I know fall in love with a TFC girl is kind of stupid but I middle age and did not have any relationship almost 4 years. I am dry. Guys, what should I do?
Disclaimer: reasonable tembak ok? I very hurt already.
TFC girl need 3 things in life
1) attention - it is at her convenience and pace, don't ever expect it on equal footing especially for those lookers or those that look like local amoi -- got probably a queue of guys already dating and piap2 her daily
2) security - she probably already have a few sugar daddy she doesn't like/love but put up a good show for them just for their security and resources, many times it is part of the job because their handler ask her to entertain a bigger dog or vvip.
3) money - she should be earning more than you so never talk about it, but if she always request gifts or help for family back home stay away, if she request for experience or your time, e.g. go shopping, eating, holiday, etc. it is reasonable
if u can tahan the emotional roller coaster, emotional blackmailing when she desperate for help, emotional support she needs because of her job, and attention she give u at her own pace and convenience then go for it.
just remember it might not last.
unless she open book with u tell u she needs RMxx to finish building house for her family back home, and RMxx monthly as expense for siblings study and household needs -- and if u can fully support her with all that and more, and you willing to marry her and give her PR status now -- it will not end well.