go and date her la, since is hot dont miss the chance. Maybe love your money or not. In the dating you will know, push or pull. She know your outlook?
In love with vietmoi, What should I do?
In love with vietmoi, What should I do?
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go and date her la, since is hot dont miss the chance. Maybe love your money or not. In the dating you will know, push or pull. She know your outlook?
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Jun 15 2023, 04:49 PM
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Jun 15 2023, 05:02 PM
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Jun 15 2023, 05:41 PM
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QUOTE(sikongma @ Jun 15 2023, 04:37 PM) Actually what made you think the local girls look you down? Back when I was in highschool I didn't know I was popular with girls and always thought no one liked me and it's only until after I was out working that some girls from highschool told me that I'm actually quite popular amongst them. So it could be just your own perception that you're inferior but actually the ladies don't see that. When I was in highschool, I have 0 female friend. All male. When I said Hi to them, their F**king face seems like dislike me. Those girl think we are weirdo because we watch anime and play games. Maybe my brother is much more handsome than me and those girl hope I would be like my brother which is also a handsome guy? Until I go to KL and further my study then I started to have female friend. Before that all my female friend are online friend. Most of my female friend said I am good. Easier to talk with, no weird pattern compare to other people. Why girl dislike me when they first get to know me? |
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Jun 15 2023, 05:50 PM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 15 2023, 05:41 PM) When I was in highschool, I have 0 female friend. All male. When I said Hi to them, their F**king face seems like dislike me. Those girl think we are weirdo because we watch anime and play games. Maybe my brother is much more handsome than me and those girl hope I would be like my brother which is also a handsome guy? Until I go to KL and further my study then I started to have female friend. Before that all my female friend are online friend. Most of my female friend said I am good. Easier to talk with, no weird pattern compare to other people. Why girl dislike me when they first get to know me? I can't tell you what's wrong with you dude.. gotta figure that out yourself but I just think you're looking at the wrong place for the correct lady. |
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Jun 16 2023, 01:13 AM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 13 2023, 07:26 PM) I been waiting for your reply. It's ok to be long because most importantly is detailed. On that day my wallet have only RM700. I did not expect need to hang RM1000 just to make her happy. I did tell her I fetch you home then I give you some cash because day before the day I met her, it was storm day (many police come sapu) and she doesn't have income and I afraid she doesnt have money to eat or use on necessity. You could have hang RM 100 see what happened... Doesnt mean you must hang RM 1000... You door also havent open then you making speculations lol...Since you have Vietnamese gf who work in TFC, may i know is that a must to go out with customer or let customer fetch home to gain more flower? I also spent roughly 3-5k (makan, drinking, go penang, sponsor some shit) with my GF to even start talking about dating... Eh brother you go buy vietnamese bride from official channel also need RM10k bro... Going out with customers means few things. 1. Go out sleep get more money [RM500-RM3000 one night... easy money... that entire week they can stay home for 1 night.] 2. Build connections [So they come back to hang more] 3. Old customers/friends [Maybe these customer helped them in the past. Some vietmoi will repay what is owed. My GF lokap before, got few customer helped her get out. She will forever be in their debt.] QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 13 2023, 07:47 PM) I am not bias to anyone here. I had courting a lot of local girls. I lost faith to local girl too. They just think they should deserve better. For example I going out with a friend of mine who is not so close. We went to a same wedding dinner and I sit beside her, as her friend I should show my gentleman like take some dishes to her because she quite short and very hard to reach. When I did it, her eyes just like stare at me and say no need. I did not know what i'm doing wrong. For those girl who I courting with, most of them will demand how much I should give them when we together? Walao, you are not my wife please. When I insist not giving then suddenly missing. Whatever you just describe here is the exact reason I no longer interested to date local girls.I prefer eat at home, and I don't mind I cook. But local girl seems prefer eat outside because boyfriend bayar ma. Vietnamese girl on the other hand give me different feeling, a feeling that I feel someone need me and not because of my money. And becareful of the feeling you get from vietnamese girls. Most of them know how to bait, is their job scope. QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 13 2023, 07:54 PM) Almost le... If she becareful a bit, took more time maybe I really kena. I don't mind she tell me she need money to study or buy food. But insist me to hang flower and not direct pass her the money I really cannot lar. Ask your junior how many year loan or who paid for the car then we talk.Why need to let boss earn commission? If she love me, she wont ask me do that. I know her period come, I buy some supplement to her, heat pad, food, etc. But these are the thing she doesn't need. What can i do? I still hope we can be friend even I know her intention. If look not good and with myvi, thats the issue. If look good, still have 50% chance But girl think myvi is a cheap car ma. All my junior drive better car than me. But myvi damn reliable that's why I never want to change because cheap maintenance. FnLockSpace liked this post
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Jun 16 2023, 09:07 AM
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QUOTE(JK-Rai @ Jun 16 2023, 01:13 AM) You could have hang RM 100 see what happened... Doesnt mean you must hang RM 1000... You door also havent open then you making speculations lol... So it is normal to go out with customer to build connection? Now I understand. Yesteday I saw her wechat said he doesn't care the guy is rich or poor, as long as can take care of her. That's fine. Not sure the wechat moment is to me or to other guy? I don't mind spend some money on her like bring her eat nice food. I even plan to bring her to lexis hibiscus to celebrate her upcoming birthday but I not sure whether she want money or love? I also not sure whether previously I over care about her does make her feel uncomfortable or not. This is my first time get in touch with vietmoi particularly work in TFC.I also spent roughly 3-5k (makan, drinking, go penang, sponsor some shit) with my GF to even start talking about dating... Eh brother you go buy vietnamese bride from official channel also need RM10k bro... Going out with customers means few things. 1. Go out sleep get more money [RM500-RM3000 one night... easy money... that entire week they can stay home for 1 night.] 2. Build connections [So they come back to hang more] 3. Old customers/friends [Maybe these customer helped them in the past. Some vietmoi will repay what is owed. My GF lokap before, got few customer helped her get out. She will forever be in their debt.] Whatever you just describe here is the exact reason I no longer interested to date local girls. And becareful of the feeling you get from vietnamese girls. Most of them know how to bait, is their job scope. Ask your junior how many year loan or who paid for the car then we talk. |
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Jun 16 2023, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 13 2023, 07:47 PM) I am not bias to anyone here. I had courting a lot of local girls. I lost faith to local girl too. They just think they should deserve better. just want to give some advice from an older manFor example I going out with a friend of mine who is not so close. We went to a same wedding dinner and I sit beside her, as her friend I should show my gentleman like take some dishes to her because she quite short and very hard to reach. When I did it, her eyes just like stare at me and say no need. I did not know what i'm doing wrong. For those girl who I courting with, most of them will demand how much I should give them when we together? Walao, you are not my wife please. When I insist not giving then suddenly missing. your first point of taking dishes for another person especially a female at a wedding dinner can send the wrong message that both of you are a couple. unless you also do that for a few other people at the same time, it's probably not a good idea to do it. for your second point, how long have you been dating for this question to come up. it's not a normal questions to ask and even some people going to marry also never ask ti's question |
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Jun 16 2023, 10:28 AM
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share us which TFC is it
we help to you test car and check her loyalty. |
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Jun 16 2023, 11:05 AM
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I'm afraid to say that 2 weeks is hardly enough time to get to know a person deeply. It seems like you have a serious case of limerence. I suggest you take a step back to really evaluate the reality of the situation. Please don't hang on to fantasy and false hope anymore. Remove all her contacts and focus on yourself. You'll thank yourself later.
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Jun 16 2023, 11:28 AM
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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Jun 16 2023, 10:27 AM) just want to give some advice from an older man On the table all are couple except me and her. We are both friend and I know she has bf and I know her boyfriend too suppose it won't feel awkward.your first point of taking dishes for another person especially a female at a wedding dinner can send the wrong message that both of you are a couple. unless you also do that for a few other people at the same time, it's probably not a good idea to do it. for your second point, how long have you been dating for this question to come up. it's not a normal questions to ask and even some people going to marry also never ask ti's question For second point, not even in relationship, not sure is joking or what. Girl usually will said her income is low, and wish her future bf will give her some pocket money etc etc. QUOTE(rizerlee @ Jun 16 2023, 10:28 AM) Confidential.QUOTE(purplefellow @ Jun 16 2023, 11:05 AM) I'm afraid to say that 2 weeks is hardly enough time to get to know a person deeply. It seems like you have a serious case of limerence. I suggest you take a step back to really evaluate the reality of the situation. Please don't hang on to fantasy and false hope anymore. Remove all her contacts and focus on yourself. You'll thank yourself later. I know 2 weeks barely enough to understand a person but when everything is so good and can sync and eventually will not think too much about pro and con of her.» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « |
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Jun 20 2023, 05:24 PM
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Vietmoi who works in TFC... TS, dont even think about it for a sec. Just move on. 100% into your money only. Been there done that.
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Jun 21 2023, 01:19 AM
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QUOTE(sapusapu @ Jun 20 2023, 05:24 PM) Vietmoi who works in TFC... TS, dont even think about it for a sec. Just move on. 100% into your money only. Been there done that. Last week find her. She did reply me but very cold. I moved on. Just treat her as friend. But wondering what happen to her because her wechat write something very weird. Quite worry about her. Dont belif those ppl who encouraged you to go after her. Those are probably inexperienced kiddos living in their fantasyland. The reality is, viet + TFC = scam your money. Just forget abt it and move on. My friend told me maybe she isn't bad but she used to it the pattern and flow with customer giving her a lot of flower and money, I can't be the one for sure because I am not that rich. |
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Jun 21 2023, 06:01 PM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 21 2023, 01:19 AM) Last week find her. She did reply me but very cold. I moved on. Just treat her as friend. But wondering what happen to her because her wechat write something very weird. Quite worry about her. This itself shows her attitude towards u. You're just one of her many customers. Better spend energy and money to find better, more realistic targets.My friend told me maybe she isn't bad but she used to it the pattern and flow with customer giving her a lot of flower and money, I can't be the one for sure because I am not that rich. poco loco liked this post
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Jun 22 2023, 11:48 AM
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QUOTE(sapusapu @ Jun 21 2023, 06:01 PM) This itself shows her attitude towards u. You're just one of her many customers. Better spend energy and money to find better, more realistic targets. Maybe she looking for someone can take care of her and rich. Most importantly is rich. That person indeed not me. What to do? Yesterday saw her wechat she went out with someone. Probably someone who fund her a lot?That time my heartache. I am so stupid. Don't know when will I wake up and leave this horrible experience? |
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Jun 22 2023, 11:52 AM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 22 2023, 11:48 AM) Maybe she looking for someone can take care of her and rich. Most importantly is rich. That person indeed not me. What to do? Yesterday saw her wechat she went out with someone. Probably someone who fund her a lot? you gotta stop stalking her.That time my heartache. I am so stupid. Don't know when will I wake up and leave this horrible experience? do you need go new place meet some vietmoi? |
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Jun 23 2023, 01:33 AM
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Jun 23 2023, 08:23 AM
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Jun 23 2023, 10:06 AM
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QUOTE(hightechgadgets8 @ Jun 23 2023, 08:23 AM) Don't want la. Afraid all TFC vietmoi same pattern. All blindly look for money. If monthly like 800-1000 I still can afford. Some very greedy, cannot la. How about you? Now look for vietmoi too? |
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Jun 23 2023, 12:04 PM
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QUOTE(FnLockSpace @ Jun 23 2023, 10:06 AM) Don't want la. Afraid all TFC vietmoi same pattern. All blindly look for money. If monthly like 800-1000 I still can afford. Some very greedy, cannot la. lol, im surrounded by vietmoi How about you? Now look for vietmoi too? cwtien liked this post
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