QUOTE(JenChew12 @ Jun 4 2023, 12:18 AM)
Hi!
I’m getting married in a month’s time and currently sorting out a few things here and there before the big day
One of the big item to tick off is the betrothal ceremony, or better known as guo da li.
I’m wondering if the Chinese wedding biscuits are necessary?
Has anyone here decided not to take as part of the gift from the groom?
My mum and I are in view of not receiving them as we have quite a tight timeline to distribute them to our relatives as since the guo da li is just two weeks before the wedding.
Hope someone can shed some light for me.
Thanks!
1. not necessary and not compulsory. unless someone in the family requested, otherwise don't waste money to order those biscuits/cookies because only small portion will be used for prayers, the remaining one confirm masuk tong sampah by end of the day.
2. what do you mean by distributing gift from groom to relatives? got such procedure? me and my wife never distribute any gift to relative except those baby full moon gift box when our baby is 1-month old. gift box consist of kuih muih, muffin etc, not the usual nasi kunyit with curry chicken because we decided to go vegetarian.
This post has been edited by geforce88: Jun 4 2023, 02:50 AM