QUOTE(Smlj96 @ May 20 2023, 01:10 AM)
I am married with kids. Being close with my sister in law who is single and sometimes I feel like I have feelings for her and it saddens me when I saw she hang out or chat with other guy. I know is not fair for her and my wife and I still love my wife. Now I am feeling confused with my feeling of wanting to be together with the both of them.
It's normal, that's the reason/need for the marriage vows, to ensure commitment because the human heart is prone to go wayward, to provide stability to the family unit and kids. Marriage need hard work and sacrifice (of what you feel).It is almost guaranteed you will find someone younger better, more beautiful/handsome, more suitable, more compatible with you AFTER you got married. Perhaps the new target is more easily manipulated, which makes that person more desirable.
It's human nature to be greedy and ask why not have both, but the risks could be you lose it all yo, even if you're Muslim and have quota for 4.
Tahan, stay away, wait till your sis-in-law finds her life-partner and you hopefully can then be happy for her and let her go.
This post has been edited by AbbyCom: May 20 2023, 01:30 AM