You've really been through a lot worst than me. I know you don't want us to feel sorry and you had managed to handle it well. I must say, you are really mentally strong. kudos...

i dunno why there are such kinds of people , who purposely done such things. sigh

This post has been edited by FinalHistory: Mar 19 2023, 07:57 PM

Its not that strange, many girls do this.

They keep backup BFs, just in case their first choice doesnt work out

They keep their options open, date a few guys at the same time frame, while still looking out for/screening for the best dude.

This is true. And best of all, she also dated another guy which I had no idea but the guy was really hostile at me.

Only after I stop seeing her, some of my friends said she was dating this other guys which is why he hates my guts.

I didn't realize he was dating her because he's already married.

huh? The world is more complicated and vicious than I thought.

I had some girls still texting me despite having a bf
she asked me to not text her at what (day), after what (time)
she even offer to come out with to hook up after 2nd date but i was lazy because 'i got her'

A lot of guys can be blind and offer unconditional love to the girl when things suddenly thing flipped he didnt know what to do cause he has invested almost everything onto her