You've really been through a lot worst than me. I know you don't want us to feel sorry and you had managed to handle it well. I must say, you are really mentally strong. kudos...

i dunno why there are such kinds of people , who purposely done such things. sigh

This post has been edited by FinalHistory: Mar 19 2023, 07:57 PM

Its not that strange, many girls do this.

They keep backup BFs, just in case their first choice doesnt work out

They keep their options open, date a few guys at the same time frame, while still looking out for/screening for the best dude.

This is true. And best of all, she also dated another guy which I had no idea but the guy was really hostile at me.

Only after I stop seeing her, some of my friends said she was dating this other guys which is why he hates my guts.

I didn't realize he was dating her because he's already married.

huh? The world is more complicated and vicious than I thought.

I had some girls still texting me despite having a bf
she asked me to not text her at what (day), after what (time)
she even offer to come out with to hook up after 2nd date but i was lazy because 'i got her'

A lot of guys can be blind and offer unconditional love to the girl when things suddenly thing flipped he didnt know what to do cause he has invested almost everything onto her

actually nothing is so special. just remember everyone should had their own privacy. just the privacy level is different only. is ok

Hehe... there's a fine line between 'love' and 'simping'. Don't simp and expect love in return, coz it tends not to end well.

Girls <30 are at the height of their value, because they have youth and beauty on their side. Men start to build their value >30, because that's when career and financial stability start to work in their favour.

So girls at the height of their value might tend to shop around to get the best deal they can get. It's only logical. Same with men when they gain access to choice. The only conclusion to be derived here is to make sure you are indeed the best choice available among the selection of possible partners she might have. If you're not (i.e. she's a very hot-looking girl whom better-off men are lusting after), then you had better be realistic lah in your expectations.

TLDR: Dating is hard for guys <30, the younger they are the harder it is. But fret not, coz time is on your side provided you mature and build yourself up well as time passes.

Cousin? LOL. That means she's still trying to string other guys along despite being committed, indicating that her man isn't of the highest value available to her in her eyes. That's a fucking huge red flag for her fiancee.

dun improve urself for the sake of luring more girls lah

improve urself because u know u have high self esteem, doesn't matter how many girls u attract.

If a young guy knows how to play the game, they can score some 26 or even 40s woman, i heard some guys as young as 17 already go to the field and practice

there are no excuses, just lower some standard probably

The moment I got that hint, I broke of contact with her. And she still wonder why I ghosted her till this day.

No, guys should also take a page out of girl's dating handbook. Girls make up to lure guys, guys can improve oneself to lure girls (use skin care products etc). Fair is fair

But TBH he already fund his own hobby etc meaning he found something he liked and that's not coz he wanna impress girls.

I prefer natural beauty.

U will notice girls look very different when they don't out make up vs put make up.

I prefer girls who take care of their body naturally, exercise, sleep better, meditate and eat healthily rather than put out an external aura.

I don't mind both ways and it is important the lady don't look too far off without make up on

Bro .... from me and all the bros in low yat ... dont continue on with this girl ... dont share stories with you means got something to hide from you lor ... you want to be in this kind of relationship meh... ????

So.......what's the conclusion? Up car d?