Bro..are you only going to date virgins? 😆

Anyways, girls are generally more selective than men when it comes to sex. Its a bigger deal for them.

Many girls will still go out with men who they are not attracted to, mainly for the attention, while she waits for the right guy.

They usually wont have sex with the simpy guy. For the right guy, they will.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Mar 6 2023, 09:25 AM

I never expect expect girls I am seeing to be a virgin honestly. It's not my criteria. For me, l expect them to have like 5 relationship maybe 3 sexual relationship out of the 5.

Obviously not too many.

For me. I won't pursue sex in a relationship. I will wait until marriage. Call me old fashion.

i had an fling with a virgin and she clearly knows we will part one day, she still gave me her 1st time...

the signs are there move on and dont give her anymore attention, she just playing your feelings

i dont know man but ur description reads like a simp

ts gotta let her go and find others

i used to chase a girl for near 5 years. it hurts and took me long enough to recover from it.

learning from lesson , i started dating multiple girls in a same time.

also in during that duration, i did ask the girls how long did she need to confirm . 1 mth ? 2 mth ?

after times up . i move on.

during that, im able to make choices which one suit me and i also have feeling for her.

now im happily married with the girl i choose and with have a kid.

you managed to fuck her or not ?

Confirm marriage?

She not even my gf but still consider cheating? Or should i said she treat me just another option?

She's just treating you as backup. Don't expect to be main person in her life. Grow up and cut all connection with her. You are just like a simp right now.

Wanna ask girl treating as backup is bad or common thing? Because i ask my sis, she also will like that!!...

Ask yourself why do you want to be a backup guy when the girl is obviously not interested in you? What do you wish to achieve?

You want to continue to hope that one day she's going to pick you? If yes, how long do you want to wait? Very important question to ask yourself.

For me, if a girl is keeping me as backup, I will cut all contact with her even if I like her. Cause my time is better spend on girls who treat me as their main guy.

If you did not have the exclusive talk with her (like officially boyfriend and girlfriend) she is entitle to see other guys, meet other guys as you are. Once you have the exclusive talk, there should not be any one other than you in the picture.

Now from your post, I can see you don't have that exclusive talk with her yet, and obviously she is not picking you over the other 2 guys which means you are in 3rd or 4th place. Do you still want to be in 3rd and 4th place,?

Being backup here means if she like this guy A and keeping you around for just in case. If things work out with guy A, you can forget about getting into relationship with her. From your post, after guy A, she still didn't pick you. She went for guy B if I am not mistaken. Them after that guy C. Your post since 2021. Now 2023 already. How long do you want to be spare tyre? 5 years? 10 years. Better for you to find younger girls.

For me, I never treat all girls I meet via dating app as spare tyre. I treat all of them as potential girlfriend material. I vet them all equally, go out talk with them and spend time with them all equally until I decide the one I want to be exclusive with. No special treatment.

Go and watch YouTube on why you should not be treated as spare tyre. I started with Courtney Ryan on red flags in women, what to lookout for and avoid.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Mar 9 2023, 11:36 PM

can be together as couple.

But you want her to be your special rite? But it seems she doesn't see you the same. This is love unrequited. You need to get her out of your system if you can. You waste enough time with her not knowing you have a future/chance with her. Stay strong brother.

This post has been edited by Dr.Drool: Mar 10 2023, 10:18 AM

A guy being a simp is primarily caused by a weak parents upbringing. True stories

I had this relationship before. The girl compartmentalize my life from her's despite we've been dating for a year.

Asked her where we're going and she said let's see how it all goes without putting everything on the table. Found out from friends that they've been invited to be in her engagement party.

And she was shocked why I terus shut her off my from my life.

Best decision I ever made. I doubt I'll be happy in that relationship.

Run far far. Don't go near her anymore and cut her off your life. Find a new girl and start over.

wow so she had another bf outside and he became Fiance?

Yea, amazing right? Best part is I saw the fiance before while we're dating and I asked her who he is.

She said it was her cousin.

Later turns out it wasn't and she was lying to me. She knew the guy since they were young though.