bruh, really meh like this also need to post?
you ady said you guys are fine with just celebrating anniversary and going for simple meal for valentines..
then.. habis tu what else are you looking for here?
if wanna celebrate both, or get flowers for both dates... then why not just combine budget for both occasions and go for a good big event on anniversary date?
simple and nice..

honestly what kind of answer are you looking for? Sometimes this kind of thing is just as simple as it can be.. why wanna make it so complicated?