QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Feb 1 2023, 11:21 AM)
So after so much bickering in Dating Apps and real life experiences, I have come to 1 conclusion,
GIRLS AT ANY AGE GROUP WILL FOCUS MORE ON LOOKS AND IF NO LOOKS, THE GUY MUST BE LOADED.
And when I mean Looks, I mean the born good looking ones. Even if you not good looking but you buff up / gym up, it's not gonna work (especially at the 30s).
Why I said so above? A few girls told me directly even if I became buff up, my face still cannot so they may not date me (means won't la) and they also said that even if the guy isn't buff or slim but got good looks, even chubby all they can accept.
So it goes down to, what is left for people like me? Where do I find girls now?
Ouch...Were the girls whom commented on you being ugly your dates? Being so direct?GIRLS AT ANY AGE GROUP WILL FOCUS MORE ON LOOKS AND IF NO LOOKS, THE GUY MUST BE LOADED.
And when I mean Looks, I mean the born good looking ones. Even if you not good looking but you buff up / gym up, it's not gonna work (especially at the 30s).
Why I said so above? A few girls told me directly even if I became buff up, my face still cannot so they may not date me (means won't la) and they also said that even if the guy isn't buff or slim but got good looks, even chubby all they can accept.
So it goes down to, what is left for people like me? Where do I find girls now?
Which part of your face do you think is the problem?
At early 40s like everyone, can expect some aging signs like forehead wrinkles and lines around your lower eyelids, which are easily corrected. Even if your face has left-right imbalance, it can still be fixed.
The unfixable ones are skull bone related disalignment, example one eye socket is positioned higher/lower than the other, or jaw malalignment problems like overbite/ underbite or nose deviation.
The ladies have a point i guess. Eveyone loves attractive faces, but the formula for attraction is more than just physical. You don't need to look attracrive but instead you can focus on getting a pleasant look, meaning fixing those that puts people off.
If you got some scars, there are ways to make the skin surface smoother.
If you don't have anything serious, can always try some makeup when you go out on dates. CMB got many ladies who are divorced, and they often don't mention their marital status.
By the way, I thought u had an LDR thing going on?
Feb 1 2023, 08:27 PM

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