Wait, who defined these requirements?

You know, there is no standard requirements, everyone have their own set of “requirements”

There are saying such as beauty in the eyes of beholder, one man’s meat is another man’s poison.

So, why you think you can’t even meet the minimum requirement? When there is no standardisation of the requirements?

Additionally, you seems to know your weakness, did you strive to improve yourself on that part?

This post has been edited by MasBoleh!: Feb 9 2023, 04:16 AM

I am sure you have girls interested in you but you are not interest at them perhaps due to them been unattractive to you?

That means your data pool is not large enough to be accurate.

Instead of accepting what you think is the reality and fact, perhaps you may try to widen your circles and hopefully your perception will change.

The thing is, once we accept we have been defeated then we really already defeated. No matter how bad the situation is, if we do not accept it, that means we are still in fight. And when we are still in fight in fighter mode, then there will always have opportunity to be ended up as winner.

A bit and not long, how to get result? You know what? You know you want something, then you have to be aggressive to get it. The fighting spirit!

If I am a girl, I see you so cynical. Is a huge turn off.

Sometimes, we got no choice but to be positive. I think you shall meet me, then you know I am actually under the same situation as you.

Can't forever be negative, right? Since regardless of what, life continues to move on, might as well live life with positivity.

I would advise people not too fixated on the black dots and been oblivious to all the rest. Sometimes the problem is actually within our mind and that's what we can control.

When it comes to mindset, it is either they see it or they don’t see it. If see it and desperate enough, then one will get out of comfort zone to go extra miles to achieve their life goals.

Just, it is very important to put less priority on girls and only focus on own life goals and hobbies. Putting girls as priority is the biggest mistake that one can make… yes you still need to put in efforts to woo girls but that shall not be the sole and main mission. That is a side mission that even if it failed, who cares? Just try another side mission but again main mission is the priority

So make sure to see it, focus on the right path

Congratulations TS ! So how you met your gf?