I’m talking about genes, cannot be everybody’s gene the same, we dont have predator hunting us but some genes will be discarded from the gene pool because women do not select them

In fact beta-ness could very well be a reflection of genetic make up, I don’t know why women run away from me but I was simply pointing out possibilities

Maybe you just have not met the right one yet…

101% Yes just in your dream! Anyway, if you are handsome thats will be different story as a lot of idiot outside!

On other hand, who want to suffer with you please!?

It’s ok to not have the best looks in the world, but u have to learn to be presentable through other means like fashion and stuffs, most girls would notice that, if u don’t do that, that’s on u

As for money, u attract gold diggers, but they won’t last long, so not really that important as compared to presentability and personality

Closest examples I have seen are some influencers have not so good looking bf, but they Definitely look presentable undeniably, but I don’t if they are together because of money, but def presentable, and or personality

Or a sense of security… God knows what makes a woman tick sometimes…

Face problems?

Not loaded?

Even face prob and not loaded rempits can score girls

You need to build a character and your way with words

Rempits is bad boy,girls love bad boys

Problem is that he thinks he’s a beta male…

Women has an internal scoring system for potential partners..

The scoring is subjective and can change over time.

But they look for the best overall score they can get.

It’s sharpened, honed and refined after thousands of years of evolution…

https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=RX0GpfsU8B6SVVSe

On phone, can’t embed it without error

This video explained it pretty well, through graphs format, however u do need some time to understand the graph

This post has been edited by HokkienMee_Lover: Jul 10 2024, 07:47 PM

Handsome good or bad is non calculative its depends how you judge.
With loaded money anything also can be good and pretty.
So this is the world now. If not yiu dint see many scam cases around.

The art of love is unfortunately not an exact science … as many casualties here can testify

Congratulations TS ! So how you met your gf?

I missed this post..

Wrll.done bro and all.the best!

Missed this gem of a post too… so belated congratulations on the new status!

.... Is that not the same for men? What you say is true to me as I've said it before: it's arrogant to think you deserve a perfect one when you'll never the perfect yourself, so find someone whose bullshit you can endure, and s/he who can endure yours... And I don't see how that doesn't apply to both genders.

Its better to be single than to end up married to a horrible person who sees things differently and has different life goals.

Men are less selective as compared to women

Men will date or marry a girl if she is considered as alright to him and will stay loyal, but some girls will jump ship if they encountered other men, who they are emotionally attracted to, again, even if they already have a boyfriend. Saw my housemate fell for the other guy and fucked up her relationship with her boyfriend, and they decided to rekindled the relationship with his ex boyfriend (don’t know which party wanted to rekindle) and broke off again, I will definitely stand the side of the ex boyfriend of my housemate, cuz she acting she was not in the fault for being “emotionally attracted” to another guy, and she wanted both of them, and the ex boyfriend got played like a piano, pity him

Nonetheless, I almost fell for her cuz she got that body tho, but her personality is pure trash

Well you're talking to someone whose father had a mistress he's passed away and my mom revealed later that he once begged her to accept both because he loved both of them. For context, my late father had decent physical looks, so you may say he had choices, like that girl lol. Now it sounds like a gender swapped scenario, which tells me only one thing: cheating happens in both genders.

I understand how some women can be a bitch and that you described one, but I think cheating is a different topic altogether. I made my previous statement based on initial attraction. Every person is looking for something specific in the other potential partner, but I guess we can agree on at least this point: men put more emphasis towards physical beauty, whereas women on safety*.

I know y'all can't wait to correct me that safety means money and I'll admit to that myself -- I intentionally filtered out un/self-employed people on app as I wanted someone with stable job. Buuut I also filtered out good looking men: for one they're too good to be true on app, but another point is... I don't want to follow my mom's footsteps. An average joe is less likely to attract bee...tches.

In case my bf reads this

For all the posters, thanks so much. Yeah, found her from CMB and we are quite in sync with one another. Lucky I didn't give up on the apps.