yup , imo it is harder to be a lelaki in 2023 compared to let say 1970-1990s where having a "normal" job and you can feed a family , have a house , car , etc.
Now being normal just don't cut it anymore , need to be at least top M40 or T20 to enjoy decent life . T10 to have good life etc
I have no idea how dystopia society is going to be in 2040 ...