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 Ex colleague keeps texting me on past work., Should I reply to her?

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yo_yo2 P
post Jan 8 2023, 11:08 PM

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this sounds to me like a real annoying situation.

in the first place, how do you want to deal with this situation? especially she is invading your weekends.

just wondering she is asking you for directions on how to do the documents, or in the process of asking that you are doing it for her? as in after she asks so many stuff that you ended up giving her the end product? because i have known people who 'pretend' to ask and then don't know what happen in between that the request 'you do la' occurs.

i'm seeing this situation as no boundary, and it's also hard for you to set a boundary without hurting some professional working relationship. just wondering is your department dealing with your working previous working place's department? if not, boundary setting can be a little easier.

did your former boss ask you in any way how to complete your stuff before you leave?
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post Jan 9 2023, 10:14 PM

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QUOTE(alexandersuk @ Jan 9 2023, 08:47 AM)
I can't ignore her because my current company has business deal with my previous company and we might cross path again in the future.
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it looks like she held you hostage. that's not good.
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post Jan 9 2023, 10:14 PM

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QUOTE(ukiya21 @ Jan 9 2023, 05:26 PM)
I think you better consult your current superior fo this matter. it might involve being accused of leaking new company data...
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sounds like a good advise. otherwise, you might want to inform your former boss too.

 

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