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post Oct 26 2022, 05:34 PM, updated 2y ago

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I'm having depression again. No matter how hard I try to forgive him and forget what he has done to me for the past 5-6 years...I just can't seem to let it go. Been telling him to divorce so many times but he just wont let me go cos he claims he still love me very much. If you really love me, why cheat on me for so many years.

Sometimes I just feel like packing my bag and just leave everything behind......
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post Oct 26 2022, 05:38 PM

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wheres the head of the story?

you are not a tree, right? you can move around
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post Oct 26 2022, 05:45 PM

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Just divorce lo, apa susah, can apply on yourself
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post Oct 26 2022, 05:54 PM

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Do you have any kids. Are you in need of any social support.

Try to Google Women Aid Organisations for advice
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post Oct 26 2022, 06:04 PM

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got story?
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post Oct 27 2022, 06:39 PM

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Come story.
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post Oct 30 2022, 11:32 AM

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From your side of story it seems no turning back.

If there is no commitment aka kids. Just proceed to apply divorce yourself. Find and consult a divorce lawyer, they will guide you.

And last, get a psychiatrist to guide you back to normal life.

Good luck

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post Oct 31 2022, 03:38 PM

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Kobe Bryant had many affairs outside, but in the end his wife took him back.

Not asking TS to agree to take back husband.

but only way forward, is to forgive and move on, next...whether want to stay or leave marriage, TS decide.
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post Oct 31 2022, 03:51 PM

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QUOTE(Apple&Honey @ Oct 26 2022, 05:34 PM)
I'm having depression again. No matter how hard I try to forgive him and forget what he has done to me for the past 5-6 years...I just can't seem to let it go. Been telling him to divorce so many times but he just wont let me go cos he claims he still love me very much. If you really love me, why cheat on me for so many years.

Sometimes I just feel like packing my bag and just leave everything behind......
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Forgive and move on. Give him sex alternate day. He will love u.
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post Oct 31 2022, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(Apple&Honey @ Oct 26 2022, 05:34 PM)
I'm having depression again. No matter how hard I try to forgive him and forget what he has done to me for the past 5-6 years...I just can't seem to let it go. Been telling him to divorce so many times but he just wont let me go cos he claims he still love me very much. If you really love me, why cheat on me for so many years.

Sometimes I just feel like packing my bag and just leave everything behind......
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just do it

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post Nov 6 2022, 10:35 PM

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Tell him that you are leaving for self-healing.
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post Nov 7 2022, 10:00 AM

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Apologise everyone that I've been silent. Had really bad depression and I keep crying....So I took a week off...but things are still the same for me. Really can't get it out of my mind....sigh.........
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post Nov 16 2022, 06:43 PM

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when enough is enough, decide once and for all what you really want. for now, the only sane choice you can make is to pack your stuff and leave for good..
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post Nov 16 2022, 07:55 PM

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QUOTE(Apple&Honey @ Nov 7 2022, 10:00 AM)
Apologise everyone that I've been silent. Had really bad depression and I keep crying....So I took a week off...but things are still the same for me. Really can't get it out of my mind....sigh.........
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No problem. You need to keep yourself busy or yiu will keep feeling sad. Go for hiking with strangers or help out at animal shelter. It will help a lot.
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post Nov 16 2022, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(Apple&Honey @ Nov 7 2022, 10:00 AM)
Apologise everyone that I've been silent. Had really bad depression and I keep crying....So I took a week off...but things are still the same for me. Really can't get it out of my mind....sigh.........
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Please seek professional help if you have not done so already.
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post Nov 18 2022, 09:03 AM

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What you can do is to be selfish for your own now.
You have to find the things that you love doing but haven't been able to due to your marriage. Just focus on that and leave the thoughts of him for a long while.

You can forgive but there's absolutely no way to forget about his cheating. Time will heal your wound. When you age slowly your memory starts to be blurry, by that time, the past seems to be none existence.
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post Nov 18 2022, 02:24 PM

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If he don’t divorce you will be forever on losing side and society will deem u as slut n bitch even u think u innocent and has been cheated

Leave him immediately
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post Nov 18 2022, 03:43 PM

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What is the story? Do you mind to share? Please get hang of yourself, be strong.
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post Nov 18 2022, 04:20 PM

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if you really love him, take the initiative to confront and discuss face to face with him & his wife and everyone lives happily ever after
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post Nov 18 2022, 06:59 PM

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Ahhh I misread your post. But it's ok , take my advise as a woman to woman conversation.
I don't usually give advise to "other woman"

Just remember the only people that qualify to eat forbidden fruit are those that already decided not kahwin otherwise good luck having a daughter in their future.
What comes around do goes around.

Hello woman, you can get through this easily because there is no string attach. Don't be afraid, try detach him out and do things only for "you" . You will be ok soon.

This post has been edited by D10yrspain: Nov 18 2022, 07:00 PM

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